I'm so sorry. :( That's really saddening to read that things with Gavin ended that way. :( But it's good to hear that you've still had Derek's support. Also many congratulations on your acceptance to uni. And even though life does throw many curve balls your way and leave you confused seemingly most of the time, I'm glad to see you healthy, emotionally strong and surrounded by radical feminist goodness. :)
Make sure you protect yourself and surround yourself with people who care about you and respect you and are sweet! I'm trying to do that.... it's hard work jeje. ;)
I know, eh? it's so bloody surprising. i still want to try to actually talk with gavin, not me-man-you-woman gavin, to try and find out what happened. he honestly used to be a radical feminist. i hope his asshole of a dad didn't finally get to him. his dad's abusive and his mom managed to divorce him, but of course he got visitation from the courts which he decides to exercise his "right" to when the mood strikes him. fuckers (meaning dad and the genious judge). and he also decides to denigrate him when the mood strikes him. why does gavin agree to keep on agreeing to see him knowing what he knows? it's like he's kind of attached to abusive men. there was a slimeball pedophile who tricked gav into thinking he loved him, too, to make things worse. so he's not just a big jerk and that's the end of it. but i do know (with the help of derek) that's it's not a good idea to try to continue a sexual relationship with him right now. sorry to dump this all on you
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but i still have derek, so things are lovely and amazing.
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Sorry to hear about your breakup, but yay for Derek siding with you and being a great partner.
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I know someone that goes to Wilfird Laurier! I go to the University of Toronto...congrats on getting in! Ooh, check out facebook.com, too. Fun!
Sorry about Gavin, and good luck with Derek!
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overall, there has been more YAY than "i'm miserable"
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Make sure you protect yourself and surround yourself with people who care about you and respect you and are sweet! I'm trying to do that.... it's hard work jeje. ;)
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