Venting

[delphinastar]

I am just angry and frustrated.

I am sure some people think I get upset over stupid things, that it's ridiculous, or crazy to get upset over the things I do- but to me, it's a real threat, and something that is truly upsetting- and why does everyone else have to feel like I do in order for it to be a real feeling????

Ron met with his ex today. At

Comments

[mitakola]

Your feelings are valid and don't let anyone tell you differently. As humans, we cannot judge the emotions and pains of another individual unless we have had their entire life experiences and are living the pain they are experiencing. I do not know your entire situation, but in reading my F-list today, your post grabbed me and I had some old memories pop up from when I had to deal with similar emotions. Right or wrong, we have them. I hope yours will subside and any pain is replaced with much happiness in your future.

[delphinastar]

thank you!

Hey Babe

[librasabaxas]

It is impossible for one individual to fully understand anothers thoughts or emotions. You are3 entitled to feel however you feel. What we as individuals have to keep in mind, is how those emotions are making us react to the other stimulus in our life.
I miss you guys.
B

Re: Hey Babe

[delphinastar]

*sigh* I know.
Sometimes I wish that we as humans could understand ourselves better. I feel a lot of things that I just don't want to feel... And of course that changes how I react to other things... Grrr...

Anyway- we miss you too. And Oddly, we were just saying that we don't have your new number- so call sometime, ok?
Just not today- cause we're heading to NYC for Jas to audition!

Love you hon! Thanks for caring.

[paganrose]

Honey...Mr. Ron is a good friend of ours, but make no mistake...he should definitely be glad he isn't my hubbie. :Chuckles: He would look really funny with a foot in the behind. No way. If Kurt and I were having some troubles and he did that...oh I most definitely would be breaking bad on his ass.

[delphinastar]

ROFLMAO- You crack me up!

Nah- I know why he did it. I understand the reasoning. Believe it or not- My logic side understands everything.

It's that damned overly sensitive aquarian side- that side is just emotional and touchy. That side says the hell with logic- it hurts!

I just can't get the two sides to meet in the middle- or even to communicate!

[sh0ckstar]

awww, that's okay to be mad- you have the right. Men are really forgetful. he probably didn't even realise it was a big deal- mainly because it might not be to him, maybe it seemed really innocent?

Maybe you'd feel better if you talked to him about it, vented to him? I think he'd understand.

but sometimes, I get really upset over things other people think are "stupid"- and it instantly gets me 3239045 times MADDER when someone asks "did you take your anti-depressant?" if I seem mad.

anyway. this may seem pretty stupid, coming from someone who's- obviously- never been married and doesn't even turn 18 till August. but.

I love you!

[delphinastar]

aww- you're so sweet! I love you!

I did talk to him. He does understand. And yeah- he just didn't think about it that way. I'm not mad anymore. And not even sure who I was mad at. I think I was mad at the situation- the IDEA of it all. Does that make sense?

Anyway- miss you much. Take care and chat soon, ok?
*mwah*

[sh0ckstar]

Miss you more! I'll try to find time to come up there for a night or two, crash on your front porch. :P

I'm glad it worked out- and of course it makes sense! Boys can be so... DUH sometimes. ;D