Comments | debrafortune: Passing Chat (and a poll)

debrafortune

Passing Chat (and a poll)

Oct 13, 2003 02:17

debrafortune (9:47:52 PM): So heres a question...
debrafortune (9:48:49 PM): am I being oversensitive if I'm offended when someone I slept with twice a little over a year ago (and chatted with quite a bit), who subsequently blew me off, messages me and says:
debrafortune (9:49:04 PM): "You probably don't remember me, but..."
Ian (9:49:43 PM): you' ( Read more... )

great unanswered questions, cookie, im, slut

Comments 7

meg October 13 2003, 02:10:31 UTC

I think it depends on the person. They probably didn't mean to offend you. It was probably a nervous way to edge into a conversation. (Although I don't know anything really...so never mind me...)

debrafortune October 13 2003, 02:15:52 UTC

It does depend on the person - it's probably just his entire existence that offends me at this point, really.

meg October 13 2003, 02:19:19 UTC

*giggle* Yeah, I have some poeple like that in my life. Unfortunately, for me, it has been my roomies and my very recent ex.

tinhuviel October 13 2003, 04:40:43 UTC

If someone blew me off, I'd be offended that he even tried to contact me period. Sounds like he's not worth your time.

debrafortune October 13 2003, 23:22:00 UTC

In truth it was a mutual blow-off. I wasn't unhappy to not hear from him, and made no particular effort to contact him either.

markormarky October 13 2003, 08:05:03 UTC

while not the end of the world, it IS offensive, and says everything about the dummy who said it and really nothing about u.

destinymanifest October 13 2003, 11:17:16 UTC

I think that he's being insecure about himself. If you hadn't remembered him, then he'd feel even more unimportant. I don't remember who I slept with years ago, but if I saw them, I'd remember. I'd just let it go. Now, if he didn't remember you, then you'd have every right to be offended, yanno. I can see both sides, but that's how I see it. ;)