Easy Going Person to Needy Texts
Has anyone come across this before?
I recently bumped into an old instructor who I had some common interests with. We exchanged numbers and the next day he not only added me on Facebook but wanted to make plans to meet up. He asked me a couple of times but I was busy during the week, and we later met up last Sunday. In person he's fairly quiet, calm and collected. And he was mature and professional during the course I took earlier this year.
Since our date I find he's intense by text. We made plans to meet this coming Friday. But today he invited me to some fireworks and a bonfire night at his friend's place. I told him that I'm feeling under the weather and will take a miss but thanked him for the invitation.
He came back with "Awwwww can't you just come for an hour, just so I can see you again? I'll pick you up so you don't have to drive". I thanked him again for the offer but adamantly said I'm having a quiet night, and as a reminder (since our next date is only a couple of days away...) asked him if he's still on for Friday. He responded with ":(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(you're making me upset now. Yeah I'm still up for Friday."
I just find it bizarre how intense he's been! I get that he fancies me and wants to get to know me better, but the immature texts seem so out of character. He seems like a whole different person face to face as he's intelligent, fairly quiet, good natured and fun. Then needy, intense, and desperate by text. I was interested in getting to know him because we have a few things in common and hard to figure out since he's a fairly quiet person. Anyone else experience this with a guy (or girl) before?
I recently bumped into an old instructor who I had some common interests with. We exchanged numbers and the next day he not only added me on Facebook but wanted to make plans to meet up. He asked me a couple of times but I was busy during the week, and we later met up last Sunday. In person he's fairly quiet, calm and collected. And he was mature and professional during the course I took earlier this year.
Since our date I find he's intense by text. We made plans to meet this coming Friday. But today he invited me to some fireworks and a bonfire night at his friend's place. I told him that I'm feeling under the weather and will take a miss but thanked him for the invitation.
He came back with "Awwwww can't you just come for an hour, just so I can see you again? I'll pick you up so you don't have to drive". I thanked him again for the offer but adamantly said I'm having a quiet night, and as a reminder (since our next date is only a couple of days away...) asked him if he's still on for Friday. He responded with ":(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(you're making me upset now. Yeah I'm still up for Friday."
I just find it bizarre how intense he's been! I get that he fancies me and wants to get to know me better, but the immature texts seem so out of character. He seems like a whole different person face to face as he's intelligent, fairly quiet, good natured and fun. Then needy, intense, and desperate by text. I was interested in getting to know him because we have a few things in common and hard to figure out since he's a fairly quiet person. Anyone else experience this with a guy (or girl) before?