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[new_york_girl03]

Who's comfortable with their boyfriend going to strip clubs?  

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[missjecka]

I'm okay with it. My boyfriend has gone to them a handful of times in our nearly 4-year relationship and has told me beforehand that he's going. It'd only bother me if he kept it a secret from me, which would lead me to be suspicious. He never goes by himself or in the middle of the day or anything sketchy like that; he goes with the same friends he always goes with, at night, just for a guys night out. All I know is that he comes home to me and loves me, and he's always told me, "I don't know why anyone would want to screw around with a stripper when they could just have a girlfriend to love... and you're free!" Haha. :)

[missjecka]

I should also mention that I've gone to a strip club with him too, and had a really fun time. :)

[uburoimerdre]

I would allow it. Wouldn't make me the happiest person maybe, but if it was with a group of friends for some boys night out or something, no problem at all. If it turned into something of a habit, discussions would be had. Then again any jealousy I would have would be not because he was looking at other women, but because I would want to oogle some titties too, I hate not being invited places.

[moonshine5]

i probably wouldn't be... but he doesn't want to, anyway.

he went last week for a bacelor party... which i was ok with for the occasion. i was slightly hurt when i heard that he got a lap dance... but the fact that he asked her to stop before the 5 minutes was over made up for that :)

[clint_redhot]

You're stronger than me!! That would have been a dealbreaker for me.

[moonshine5]

well, we didn't really talk about it much before he went... in the future when he goes for things like bachelor parties, there will be a rule made ;)

[___heyvanity]

I'm definitely NOT considering one of my boyfriends ex-girlfriends was a stripper.

But then again, I'm an overly jealous, and resentful person.

[stoli_hat]

I don't think I'd be ok with it, but I don't have to worry about it cause my BF thinks they are stupid.

"Why go somewhere and pay for a girl to get you all horny when you can't do anything about it anyway?"

[h2ok]

My bf feels the same way. "Why would I pay to be teased?"