Five Seconds Of Sexy, For 5 Minutes Of Love...

[nuclear_toast]

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As a community of people who are either in relationships, or trying to sort theirs out. There is always something that can be done to enlighten both ends of the sex spectrum.

Lets talk about lingerie...

I may not be a woman. But if there has something I have learned over the years of dating, it is to pay attention. Not just to what a woman

Comments

[sidekicknomore]

Nice.. well I have to say I LOVE lingere! Love it. for me I couldn't never at any moment feel or look sexier then when I'm in some smoking hot teddy

[nuclear_toast]

Well, I talk to my guyfriends, they seem to have alot of questions about intimacy, and bedroom rules.

A woman doesn't need lingerie to feel sexy around me lol.

I just hope guys who are a little shy about asking, can take something positive and informative away from your insight and bring it to the bedroom ;-)

[sidekicknomore]

I LOVE being the girl that has guyfriends and answering their question about the bedroom and sex.

My boy sadi the same thing to me about not having to wear lingerie around him to feel sexy. and while its nice to hear sometimes its all about feeling that extra bit.

for example. I'm feeling so sexy today. I'm having a great day at work and nothing has gone wrong. Tonight (if he wasn't busy) I'd want to wear extra sexy outfit. I don't do it because I can't feel sexy without it, but because I feel so good.

Women's sex drives have so much more to do with our moods then actually being turned on that I find its often the case. When I'm feelin extra good I want to step everything up. Especially feeling sexy. ;)

[awakened_soul]

I agree with the idea of letting her undress you. She's the one lookin' smokin', and you are at her mercy regarding what you get out of the deal. Sit back and enjoy. Pour on the complements so you will get her out of the sexy undies....or don't try so hard to get her out of 'em. Have sex with her panties still on. Hawt.

Ahem. Should I be thinking these things at work? Prolly not. LOL.

[ofthefield]

Kiss her neck. Run your fingers over the cups of the bra. Slide the straps off her shoulders one at a time. While you're unhooking it, embrace her and tell her some sweet (or dirty!) nothings. Leave her underwear on for a while and say hello to her nipples. Caress her (ahem) behind and the backs of her thighs, (i.e. the stuff that's not-so-covered).

Enjoy it a little bit. And make sure to tell her how sexy she looks and how much you love it when she thinks of you, in that way...

:)

[mellistl]

I buy lingerie, honestly, to make ME feel good. It makes me feel good to be wearing something like that. It also does make me feel good to be going something like that for my boyfriend.

Take the time to admire your girl in what she has on.
Compliment her.
Make her feel like the most gorgeous woman on earth.
Take your time with her.
Use the time to feel, touch what she has on.

[cpl593h]

I am a lingerie addict. Meaning I have a collection of epic proportion. It's my favorite thing to buy, look at, wear, whatever. I agree with another poster that I buy it for myself, because I like the way it makes me feel or I just like the way it looks like any other piece of clothing. I love to decorate myself.

Also, I get a great reaction from my boyfriend. He loves the way it looks on me and it shows, and that gives me a lot of pleasure as well. Plus there's nothing that says I have to take it off for him, leaving it on is sometimes half the fun.

[nuclear_toast]

It sucks men can't decorate themselves like women...

... I guess we could hang an ornament on our, "Branch"?

I rock a pair of assless chapps, or a couple goofy things to lighten the mood.

[beganwithayes]

ahahah! the mental image of one of those round christmas ornaments on a peen!

[ofthefield]

Mmm, boxer briefs.

Wait, what were you saying?

[_voxy]

The problem is that most men don't realize that women don't buy the lingerie for men... We buy it for ourselves! -LOL- Often it's just that little extra to make you feel sexier and give you the confidence to maybe try something new or kinkier

Mod Update

[nuclear_toast]

Just to clear this up.

This post wasn't directed to display the dense-minded male desire to see women in skimpy underwear.

It was to address the topic of WHEN a woman actually DOES put on lingerie for an INTIMATE SITUATION, and how a man could positively respond to that without making the woman feel like she went to that trouble for nothing.

I probably should have added into the post the other inspiration for this, about women often complaining about how men "Never appreciate the fact I got all dressed up for him, and it was off 5 seconds later".

:-)