Those damn parties. =^^=

[darthzal]

Gods... Another party, another night out, another headache tomorrow (?).
          This time, the reason for partying was that a friend of mine -- he's a really nice guy and I intend to hook him up with an equally nice girl sometime! -- had invited me to a kind of prom. There were men in tailcoats and lots of Swedish punch. Woohoo! All good. However

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[hybrid_xisha]

I kind of use parties as an excuse to flee from my everyday life and from myself. I believe this is a bad thing.

It doesn't haveta be a bad thing, though. If you like the parties, keep doing them--but find a way to integrate what you do at parties into your regular life. Like, make plans with the people partying to do something non-partyish. Get to know what everyone else is doing when they're not being drunk and loud. XD

[darthzal]

Heh, I just wish some people were drunk and loud all the time, 'cause they're a lot easier to make contact with when they're slightly delirious. =^^=

But you're right, as always. Damn you, woman, why are you so wise? *smiles lovingly*

[klena]

It's OK to party, love! But...I dunno. Maybe just cut down on the drinking and see how that goes?

I can tell you, honestly, that I love you. And I didn't need to be persuaded. You are a wonderful, funny, adorable, lovable, HOT person and you should know that.

I'm not lying. I think you're fantastic.

[darthzal]

Oh, the drinking isn't the main problem. (I realise I sounded like an outright alcoholic when writing this. I really didn't mean to. *grins*)
I think the real problem is my inability to relax and do nothing, or at least do things without having to... I dunno, deliver?
Blah. I keep pushing myself too hard and now I pay the price.

And you are a daaaarling!
Also, as I'm curious; how goes your college love life? =^^=

[urbanelf]

You don't sound like an alcoholic. Trust me, I've grown up with 'em, and talked to alcoholics and addicts of all sorts and all points in their addiction. Y'sound quite unlike one.

[urbanelf]

Seriously. People can definitely find you likable, even lovable. You've already captured my intrigue, and I imagine it easier for folks other than me *grin*

You've got a lot going for ya.

And as I've said before. As long as ya ain't hurting yaself

[darthzal]

Oh, dear, don't make my ego go all cocky and happy. =^^=
I'll try not to hurt myself. Promsie. But only if you promsie me you'll do the same. *hugs*

[urbanelf]

I think cockiness and happiness are good things in moderation, I thought you could use it then. And its honesty too, not just me saying it.

I'll certainly promise you the same. It fits with a long standing promise to myself and others of the same, so.. *grin*

[keeloca]

Hey, you are sweet and adorable, locita. No need to persuade anyone. And I am picky when it comes to people I like...

As for hiding from everyday life... Well, every now and then you need to just let go. Relax. Sooner or later you'll feel strong/brave/whatever enough to deal with whatever you percieve your problems to be.

And tell me about the confusiong. I can help... *angelic smile* Trust me. Besides, I'm nosy.

[darthzal]

"Relax"? What is this strange word? What does it mean? I don't really know.
(I'm guessing you are aware of the feeling, you workaholic. YOU should relax, dearie. I can give your back a good relaxing rub the next time I see you. *winks*)

...Hmm! When you hand out angelic smiles, you're up to something. *eyes suspiciously* Well, okay, I promise to spill my aching guts when I see you. Combined with the back-rubbing.
*huggles*

[keeloca]

*does her very best Burns impression* Excellent!

And I certainly know how to relax. I just don't have time... But far be it from me to say no to a... rub. :p

[urbanelf]

Also, the welling up of feelings is not an unnatural thing, even when it is infrequent. They are there so that you may come to be more familliar with them, and eventually to understand. Through the odd, often uncomfortable feelings, we grow.