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May 03, 2007 19:45

I knew I shouldn't have told you all about being pregnant. I went to the doctor today and had the ultrasound done.... it's gone. The sac is still in place so I didn't bleed or miscarry yet, but there's nothing inside anymore. I don't want to talk about it, so I thought I'd just let you know and then move on.

Thank you for your thoughts and

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latinlover1130 May 4 2007, 00:38:16 UTC
i'm so sorry lita.

i don't know what you're going through, and even if i did, there wouldn't be anything i could say that would make you feel better, but the good thing is, at least you know that it is possible to conceive. that, in itself, is a great thing considering your surgery.

I'm praying for you...for peace and comfort and guidance. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

*love and prayers and hugs*

Megan

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happyathomemjc May 4 2007, 13:56:38 UTC
I am so sorry to hear that. My first pregnancy ended in a very early miscarriage(9 weeks) and I know how hard it is to get through something like this-whether you were trying to get pregnant or not. Well wishes-no matter how kind they are in nature, do absolutely nothing to make you feel better so I will just simply say that you are in my prayers.

Melissa

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daisygirl0415 May 4 2007, 14:33:14 UTC
we always had things in common.... I was exactly 9 weeks too. I guess the part that hurts the most is that it hasn't bled out so my body is technically still pregnant. There's just no baby growing, which makes me feel more empty than if everything was gone. But surprisingly I'm doing ok.

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happyathomemjc May 5 2007, 12:52:12 UTC
That was the hardest part for me as well. My boobs still hurt and my stomach was still queasy but I wasn't pregnant. Thankfully it only took about a week and a half before my body got the hint and I officially miscarried.

At the time it wouldn't have helped to have someone tell me this but now looking back, it really all worked out for the better. Instead of living in an apartment we now have a house, financially we were a bit more secure when we had Chandler and our marriage was much more solid by the time Chandler came along. God completely healed my heart from the loss as I now He will do for you.

I am glad to hear things are looking up for your employment opportunities.

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