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I Me Wed

Feb 26, 2010 09:29

Creating A Marriage With Yourself

The above article is interestingly enough similar to a concept that I was struck by last year. I was experiencing a great deal of uncertainty about who I was and my abilities to handle life and relationships. I decided to make myself my priority, not just in words but in actions. I started to take a look at the ( Read more... )

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erinya February 26 2010, 17:54:10 UTC

That is awesome.

I'm trying to learn to parent myself, since I have all these issues with my bio parents. It's a similar kind of thing. Not always easy, though!

erinya February 26 2010, 20:09:35 UTC

*nods* Often I find I have to take my "young" self in my arms and hold her tight. Give her the compassion and understanding about things that I didn't get as a child.

cymbeline February 26 2010, 20:10:54 UTC

stupid lj logging me off.

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cymbeline February 26 2010, 20:07:52 UTC

I love getting to share this stuff and its really amazing to run across something that I started doing not really understanding its impact all the way.

Becoming my own Primary partner has been fantastic so far. Not to say its all roses but really learning to like myself has been the most empowering thing. I'd love for more people to try it :-)

dressagespirit February 26 2010, 23:49:38 UTC

Thanks for posting that! It really hits on some things I've been dealing with lately.

cymbeline February 27 2010, 16:53:50 UTC

I am so glad you can get some use from it.

I didn't really sink into this concept until I'd gone in for some body work from a guy who specializes in tantric massage. I came away from that realizing that I was lacking in the respect and cherishing of who I was...mostly from myself.

(((hugs)))