To say you're handling the end of your first relationship better than I did would be a VAST understatement. XD Six months really isn't too bad either, fairly normal for the first time 'round, I'd say.
Honestly, I feel the first breakup can actually be positive, as it adds a wealth of experience and knowledge for the future. But, it's a hard lesson. XP Anger is usually the first thing most people feel, though funnily enough that came much later for me, so if you find that you have some real upset for this over time, you know how to reach me if you wanna talk. I may even pop on AIM once in awhile. ;)
But, I have to say, if he's into drinking, then you should feel no remorse over this whatsoever! Sorry, I'm very sensitive to that topic...I see alcoholics everywhere. It's like a conspiracy. XD But if he's really into drinking, you seriously don't want any part of that.
Anyway, smile and enjoy your hair and your freedom! :D
Really? Well thank you, ma'am *bows* It got ugly last night, but not too insane or anything.
Thanks bb. I really was quite angry initially, but now I kinda am relieved, but still really confused. I'd absolutely LOVE to talk to you. :) And now I have much more time to do so. :)
Yeah, I seriously understand what you mean about drinking. I despise alcohol, so if he kept doing it or his habit got worse while he was with me, I'd be miserable, and that's the truth.
Thank you so much. <3 This really helped me a lot. Once I get over the initial shock, I'm sure I'll be okay. :)
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Honestly, I feel the first breakup can actually be positive, as it adds a wealth of experience and knowledge for the future. But, it's a hard lesson. XP Anger is usually the first thing most people feel, though funnily enough that came much later for me, so if you find that you have some real upset for this over time, you know how to reach me if you wanna talk. I may even pop on AIM once in awhile. ;)
But, I have to say, if he's into drinking, then you should feel no remorse over this whatsoever! Sorry, I'm very sensitive to that topic...I see alcoholics everywhere. It's like a conspiracy. XD But if he's really into drinking, you seriously don't want any part of that.
Anyway, smile and enjoy your hair and your freedom! :D
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Thanks bb. I really was quite angry initially, but now I kinda am relieved, but still really confused. I'd absolutely LOVE to talk to you. :) And now I have much more time to do so. :)
Yeah, I seriously understand what you mean about drinking. I despise alcohol, so if he kept doing it or his habit got worse while he was with me, I'd be miserable, and that's the truth.
Thank you so much. <3 This really helped me a lot. Once I get over the initial shock, I'm sure I'll be okay. :)
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