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[crazywriterchic]

Okay, so I've been a huge lazy-ass lately! LOL! I know, I know, I'm sorries! I haven't posted in forever, but I just feel like...belgh! What's been going on in my life that's so exciting? You know? I get up, I go to work, (I think I'm getting carpal in my wrist, elbow, and shoulder--or tendinitis, whatever, cuz they alternately hurt and feel tingly

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[ext_183619]

Ther's nothing wrong with wanting attractive guys to notice you. You mentioned biological imperative. A woman instinctively wants to choose the fittest mate. Fabio is a very fit mate. The fact that we are not ourselves very fit doesn't have anything to do with how we've been programmed by both nature and nurture to respond to people of varying prettiness.

Geek2Geek might not be a bad idea, and I hope it works out for you. I wouldn't have any of the things that are most valuable to me if I hadn't met Sam online pretending to be Gambit's ex-wife while he was pretending to be Merlin. You've got to find the guy who strokes all the right places. And, honestly, even physical attraction can change over time. But I hope you get a cute geek. Nothing's better than a hot guy who will bitch about comic books with you.

[crazywriterchic]

LOL! That'd be awesome! I'd love to bitch about geeky stuff with someone. Although, I'd hope he also could occassionally drop in a Shakespearean referance. Honestly, a geek who can quote Much Ado to me would have my heart in a second!

[ext_183619]

It was Sam's interest in my piercings that initially got me. We sing cheesy songs to each other while we drive. It's like being in an indy movie, sometimes.

I hope you find someone you can talk to. Pretty and smart are good, but openness is the number one most important thing in the world.

Also, what would you like for generic winter holiday?

[crazywriterchic]

Ooo! Presents! Um...hm. I am always a fan of pretty notebooks and inkpens. Or, I've been coveting Neil Gaiman's _American Gods_ but am too cheap to go buy it myself. that would make a nice present.

You? I have one thing I've been meaning to send you but never got around to. But other than that one thing, is there anything you'd like for your winter holidays?

[felsong]

AGREED!

I suppose I'm a hypocrite too then..I used to say that my bf had to be fatter than me..and God decided to punk me by having a few chubby guys like me. Then I decided to reword it to "not chubby" and a coupld of super skinny guys expressed interest!

Looks aside, we're biologically programmed to want the fittest/healthiest mate..and the best way to judge this is 1) their physical appearance, 2) lifestly habits. IT certainly helps if they look good and are well groomed. Guys who start telling me about their ailments (i.e. non-sports-related injuries) make the EUW lightbulb go off in my head..especially when it's some kinda scary disease like collapsed lungs or fungal infections..*sighs* I'm still lookin for Mr Right too..why can't Alec be real?!

On a side note, we've had 96 visitors to chapter 18 of GQ. Or 107 visitors and 223 hits to GQ in the month of Sept.

[crazywriterchic]

Wow, that'd be really creepy if a guy suddenly started teling me about personal hygene problems! Major turn off! I'd just like a guy to come talk to me who doesn't scream "thug," "idiot," or "white trash." See? Snob.

[toxic_corn]

How did I overlook this? WELCOME BACK TO JOURNAL LAND!

Look, as a fellow big girl, I sympathize. I'm not especially pretty, either. But I still managed to get a reasonably attractive boyfriend. (Okay, I happen to think he's hot but I'm biased.) It's not wrong to want someone attractive. And don't think for a SECOND that you don't deserve what you want based on how you interpret your looks. You may see yourself in an unattractive light but who's to say that you're not the bee's knees to somebody else?

Anyway, my point is you're not a snob. Maybe if you wanted someone ONLY attractive but I doubt that's the case. :P (By the way, gross older guys used to hit on me ALL THE TIME so I feel your pain.)