Comments | cocolo: The Breakup

cocolo

The Breakup

Sep 17, 2006 17:19

It's been a month since James and I broke up. I know I should have updated earlier, possibly told a few more people about this, or somehow made a bigger deal about it than I had, but in the end it's all the same: we are no longer together, end of story ( Read more... )

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rankingranqueen September 18 2006, 04:56:38 UTC

Sorry to hear your relationship ended, but it sounds like you made the right choice. Aggression problems are no good... and I know the slow decay ending. Just try not to go back and forth with each other too much... the getting back togethers feel great, but it makes things a lot more complicated.

cocolo September 18 2006, 05:06:50 UTC

actually the sad part is that he ended it..i'm the type that just cannot end things for the life of me..hopefully this'll get better going forward.

the relationship has pretty much been dead for six months already...i miss what we used to have but i have no desire to go back to him now, given the circumstances.

thanks for the thoughtful words! : )

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cocolo September 18 2006, 07:56:11 UTC

thanks, i'm taking it a lot better than most ppl expected (and that's me, included). i guess for the most part i was kinda private about our problems and not many ppl knew that we were in any trouble at all...ah well, live and learn! : T

haven't talked to you in a while!!! how are ya doing?

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cocolo September 19 2006, 04:22:10 UTC

yep...didn't really feel like posting a sob story or anything like that, although i do have PLENTY! ugh. good to get it off my chest though...it's been pent up for too long.

are you settled in yet or no? i dont' think i'm ever gonna have a housewarming (or apt warming, whatever). : P

sexyporky September 18 2006, 13:27:33 UTC

Be strong Connie. Sometimes things are just meant to be. Maybe it's better that it ended now instead of say a messy divorce 20 years later.

Since you guys went out 3 years, you need at least a good 6 months to heal yourself. So take care of yourself in the meantime, meet friends, enjoy your new single life.

:)

cocolo September 19 2006, 00:57:06 UTC

haha you know what? i've thought about the EXACT same thing you wrote..."i have it SO much better than couples with 3 kids and a house who get a divorce when they're 45..." a similar scenario would be my own mom...so i know it's defnitely not the end of the world! thanks for the cheering up. : )

clearbright September 20 2006, 22:38:52 UTC

sorry to hear about your breakup, but it's good to hear that you're dealing with it well! *hugs*

cocolo October 8 2006, 22:09:40 UTC

yep... : )

it was a good decision after all...

kboy75 September 25 2006, 14:23:22 UTC

breaking up is hard....