Comments | cocolo: friends that are guys, guys that are friends

cocolo

friends that are guys, guys that are friends

Feb 23, 2005 10:25

I was randomly browsing the web when it suddenly dawned on me: I have no true guy friends. And by no "true guy" friends, I mean no HETEROSEXUAL guy friends. This was a rather shocking epiphany on my part, and I tried to rack my brains out thinking I must have missed a guy friend here or there or somewhere in my past. But nope, I could not think ( Read more... )

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sexyporky February 23 2005, 14:25:21 UTC

i have several close female friends. platonic, no kissing.

not sure where i would be w/o them. sometimes it's good hearing the
female perspective to some of my problems.

cocolo February 23 2005, 19:27:51 UTC

See, my boyfriend also has these close (well, they were closer before I came into the picture) female friends. But my main point is that I think many guys are more driven by physiologial needs than girls. You guys are definitely an anomaly (thankfully you guys exist!). : P

inutrunks February 24 2005, 09:49:55 UTC

I agree with sexyporky. I have a few close female friends (Although, not many, because I seem to drive them away by some weird reason (No crazy sexual reasons, just my crazy personality). I don't know where I'd be without the advice of a few of my female friends, I mean, geeze, you guys have great sadvice giving skills or something like that >.>

Anyway, Yea. I dunno, alot of the females that I hang out with are girls that mostly only have guy friends, and non of that sexual stuff with them either, straight up, male friends. They all have girlfriends though too >.>. I dunno.

Oh, You should see my hair now, It's below my sholders, I'll take a picture of it sometime soon... or get Lauren to... or something

cocolo February 24 2005, 15:03:44 UTC

Yeah, see, there are two types of guy-friends-who-have-girlfriends. The first is the type who are very nice to other girls and get along with many of them just fine...no sexual tension because they're attached and the girls know this. The other type are those who keep their distance from other girls because they have girlfriends.

Haha, I really should add a corollary to this entry. : P

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Re: i concur cocolo February 27 2005, 01:26:46 UTC

: T

Re: i concur anonymous March 2 2005, 01:21:46 UTC

it is a sad cynical world... but i have guy friends who are only guys friends... but remember we discussed this during your expedition to SD: can a guy and girl be completely just friends... and y'alls said no... hahaha well i still have guy friends who are just guy friends~~ but, i have been thinking this a lot more these days: people really aren't cool.. =0( anyway~~ YOU GUYS GOTTA COME DOWN TO SD AGAIN AND WE GOTTA GO UP TO LA =0D

Re: i concur cocolo March 2 2005, 08:43:06 UTC

Is this who I think it is? :DDD

I know that you get along great with a lot of guys...but think back to when you first met them...most likely they were attracted to you and the moment just fleeted by to the point where you guys were comfortable and "asexual" around each other. I'm just putting this idea out because recently it seems like you're having some friend-who-are-guys trouble (hehehehe you know what I'm talking about). : )

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