Ok let's review. You've cursed me for giving you advice. you've never listened to a word I say. You've attacked me for offering opinions that you have asked for. you've asked me to support you in your decisions, and when you change your mind you get violently upset when i ask you why. You are volatile and unpredictable and if you're going to continue this I have no desire to be around you.
I guess we're done for a while if you're going to talk to me and my love like this. I'll be going now. dont expect to hear from me.
You Know... I really don't get it. I have been hurt by you and yet all you can think to do is blame me. I guess that's the way everyone works now. I already apologized but you don't want to even acknowledge that. I don't understand you anymore, you make no sense half the time
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“...and you need to be able to stand with or without anyone else supporting you... ...but if you don't at least START working on your independence, you'll never make it to the phase where you can start working on your relationship... ...You need to set up acheivable goals that will help you break this habit... ...But self-help books don't solve problems... ...Hey, now, I'm just trying to be your friend... ...my point is that those kinda books tend to make people think they've got more problems than they really do...
...Y'know, we know you a lot better than that damn book, and we want to see you happy. Self-help books just want your money.”
You say I’m being self-centered, but wasn’t I talking about you the whole time?
I say a lot when I'm venting. *Points to the thing at the very begginning where I say I am venting, Venting= me being pissed off and cursing a lot of it I don't really mean* mostly I'm just anoyed that you offered advice when I didn't want it, couldn't take it at the time, and was asking you to stop and you wouldn't.
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I guess we're done for a while if you're going to talk to me and my love like this. I'll be going now. dont expect to hear from me.
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“...and you need to be able to stand with or without anyone else supporting you...
...but if you don't at least START working on your independence, you'll never make it to the phase where you can start working on your relationship...
...You need to set up acheivable goals that will help you break this habit...
...But self-help books don't solve problems...
...Hey, now, I'm just trying to be your friend...
...my point is that those kinda books tend to make people think they've got more problems than they really do...
...Y'know, we know you a lot better than that damn book, and we want to see you happy. Self-help books just want your money.”
You say I’m being self-centered, but wasn’t I talking about you the whole time?
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