Has anyone worked with Hospice?

[cinn_lj]

I've been thinking for a while I'd like to donate services to Hospice (they were wonderful when my grandmother passed away a few years ago), but I'm a bit concerned that I would have a hard time with the emotional aspect of it. My work can already be fairly draining, and I want to make sure I wouldn't be biting off more than I can chew

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[sazired]

I think it's wonderful of you to do this, and I'm sure the caregivers will be most appreciative if you decide to.

I've not ever worked hospice side before, opting instead for the EMS side of medicine, but I know that my Mom has. In fact, it's one of the reasons she started doing Reiki and massage as well, if I'm not mistaken. If you want to talk to her about it, I know she'd be more than willing to give you some inside info.

x

[cinn_lj]

I would love any input she has!

[lazy_daisy64]

Aims, when my daddy died we had hospice care at home. I can't tell you how incredible it was for all of us. Whatever you can do would be incredibly appreciated, I'm sure.

You would be ace for it. You are one of the strongest people I know, and people would benefit so much just by having you around. And I know you would gain tremendously as well. Hospice, to me, is not about the tragedy of death. It's all about understanding and not being so afraid, spending time to help your loved one pass, to instill dignity in a situation that deserves it. The single experience I had made such a difference in my life.

I hope you do it. I know it would help you heal, as well as give you an outlet for that tremendous reservoir of love and compassion you have.

xo

[cinn_lj]

Thanks, Lizzie. I agree--I think Hospice is an incredible opportunity to give the person who has meant so much in your life the care and respect they should have in their greatest hour of need. It helped my entire family to say goodbye and share in her care, and it was a far warmer, emotionally comfortable place for her than a sterile hospital room. I hope that when my time comes, I will be loved and cherished enough to spend my last days surrounded by the people I love in a place I'm comfortable, eyes wide open to the legacy of my life.