I think that I agree more with the second explanation. It's almost dangerous to share the things you really care about with others. They can ridicule you for them, think less of you because of them, dismiss them, pity you for them, and a range of other little hurts. We are prepared to talk to anybody about the stuff they can already know, what classes we take, what we did last weekend...its the hidden stuff that we can't allow them to be privy to unless we trust them and are willing to give a little part of ourselves up for them to do with what they wish.
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You're a wacko. : )
Much love,
Stefanie
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