Well, That Was Quick: trying to tell people one at a time about things doesn't always work

Jul 11, 2013 13:19

I guess I don't know what I really expected: to get to be the person who got to tell people the news that was mine to tell? To believe that maybe I'd get to tell people something cool one-on-one when it was quiet and intimate and joyful for me and for them? To maybe (just maybe) not have to pick and choose who got to know what at what time, but to ( Read more... )

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chronarchy July 11 2013, 17:50:11 UTC
I had you on a list to potentially tell at Trillium, but it was too early, really, to tell most anyone. Thanks for the link ;)

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skylark913 July 11 2013, 17:50:26 UTC
That is a really good post! Someone forwarded that link on to me as well. :)

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anonymous July 11 2013, 17:35:51 UTC
Damn. That's a lot of cheese. And actually really fucking cool. I wonder if one cheese is more potent magically than another cheese.

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chronarchy July 11 2013, 17:57:53 UTC
I know. We used. . . Um. . . Fontina.

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autumnfey July 11 2013, 18:09:55 UTC
So on Sunday as I was thinking about cleaning out my car I spotted the gift I have been meaning to send you for quite some time now and thought, damn I really need to get that in the mail to Mike, but what if they have been trying all along and they aren't able to get pregnant - I don't want to make them feel bad. . . Now, I have thought this on and off for the past year so it isn't to say on some level I had any idea, but still kind of funny. I'm on such a roll now, I think I will wait until they are born as it is only a one and I want to find something else so they won't fight over it (baby fights are not pretty). And please pass on to Maggie my warm wishes as well!

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chronarchy July 11 2013, 20:40:41 UTC
Will pass then along. :) If you'd sent it earlier, I probably would have just put it somewhere until she was pregnant. I had no doubts in the long run.

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hearthstone July 11 2013, 18:36:47 UTC
Congratulations and good luck! May the pregnancy and birth be easy, may your family be happy!

I think people get excited about babies for two reasons: one, they wish you well, and two, it is such a universal human experience. :) I am not a "baby person" per se (I think people improve with age) but I am always happy when friends are happy.

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chronarchy July 11 2013, 20:39:41 UTC
Thanks. It's a bit weird to me, I admit, the whole thing :)

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A thing I did when I became pregnant... anonymous July 11 2013, 19:48:04 UTC
I have a lot of problems involving my pregnancy too, but when I discovered that I was pregnant (with a possible abortion alert), I simply carved a Berkano rune on a piece of birch and dyed it with my own blood and I carried everywhere with me, I didn't leave it even when I was sleeping. It worked pretty well, so well that one day it broke and I have my daughter the next day, one month before time but very healthy.

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Re: A thing I did when I became pregnant... chronarchy July 11 2013, 20:28:42 UTC
Very nice: thank you for sharing!

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