The most wonderful time of the year....

[christianneil]

Ma's in her kerchief, and I'm in my cap, and I'm about to settle in for a long winter's nap, but I decided that I needed to post a little something tonight....It's been a busy day

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Ancient Chinese Secret

[shellianne]

I totally understand the whole anger thing. And it is true that your only wasting your time by spiting them. I guess doing so gives us a little short-lived gratification, but not much more. More than anything you may feel like you do not have as much control in your life right now. ULAR is unbending and unreasonible, the pain your ex has caused will take time, ( and probably a hot date)and you feel betrayed by a co-worker that has no reason to do anthing to you (you may feel alittle sabatoged).It's no fun, such as life. You have a lot going for you. Focus on the good and excentuate the positive.

BTW, I stopped smoking recently. Keeping busy and surrounding myself with people who don't smoke helped. And I'm saving about $25 bucks a month, and drinking less. Not that I'm an alcoholic, but smoking sure sounded good with a sno-cone. Still does.

Faith is something to hold on to. Focus on faith instead of the negative could bring you peace. Ok, I gotta go. I'm sounding like a fortune cookie.

Re: Ancient Chinese Secret

[christianneil]

I appreciate your words....a couple of things have changed since I made this post.

I started dipping again, but I plan to quit before I leave for Florida next week.

I did go to confession, and father John did not tell me that I had to pray for the transgressors, but that I should pray for those who are hurting. I need to get back to the rosary.

Catch you tomorrow!

-C

Ancient Chinese Secret

[shellianne]

I totally understand the whole anger thing. And it is true that your only wasting your time by spiting them. I guess doing so gives us a little short-lived gratification, but not much more. More than anything you may feel like you do not have as much control in your life right now. ULAR is unbending and unreasonable, the pain your ex has caused will take time, ( and probably a hot date)and you feel betrayed by a co-worker that has no reason to do anthing to you (you may feel a little sabotaged).It's no fun, such as life. You have a lot going for you. Focus on the good and accentuate the positive.

BTW, I stopped smoking recently. Keeping busy and surrounding myself with people who don't smoke helped. And I'm saving about $25 bucks a month, and drinking less. Not that I'm an alcoholic, but smoking sure sounded good with a sno-cone. Still does.

Faith is something to hold on to. Focus on faith instead of the negative could bring you peace. Ok, I gotta go. I'm sounding like a fortune cookie.