oral sex question

[ex_annemarie10]

Let me preface this by saying my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now

Comments

[rest_in_thee]

What about oral sex just as foreplay, but making it a point that he only ejaculates during intercourse?

[muffledlaugh]

seconded. further, are you monitoring your cycles rather closely now that you are trying to get pregnant? perhaps sticking to oral sex when the likelyhood of getting pregnant is lower, as opposed to when you are ovulating?

[ontic_evil]

Why don't you talk to your husband about it? Tell him you think you might be sabotaging your chances of getting pregnant, and see if he's willing to temporarily adjust your behaviours until you do get pregnant.

When you want to do anything in life, you have to really take every opportunity to give it a chance at success. Why continue doing something that is making you feel like you're not going to succeed?

[wakingdreaming]

Unless you've set some sort of "time limit" on getting pregnant, why not just enjoy yourselves? Stressing out about the process is counterproductive to getting pregnant. Enjoy intercourse when you want that. Enjoy oral sex when you want that. The pregnancy will happen sooner or later, most likely, and if it doesn't, at least you're not contributing to the overpopulation of the world.