Job!

[chitzk0i]

I'm employed!  Another week or so will make it three months.  I work in maintenance at a hotel downtown.  I got hired as extra labor to replaced the hotel's aging, decrepit pneumatic HVAC controls with digital ones, but have the times some emergency or another pulls me off that project.  Or a supervisor assigns me to do routine preventative

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[cabbagemedley]

I wholeheartedly recommend getting a place of your own and getting assloads of therapy. I would be so much less healthy if I hadn't done both of those things. You're going to get there!

[cabbagemedley]

Oh - I don't know if you're familiar with it but the Captain Awkward advice column often has wise words on setting boundaries and being reasonable when other people are indulging in manipulation or other fuckery. Maybe delving in the archives, maybe under the Parents tag or just generally, might turn up something helpful even if it's only a mantra to repeat silently as you tune out the guilt tripping...

[chitzk0i]

Thanks. I'll look into that. And thanks for the encouragement.