Head under water, and you tell me to breathe easy for a while

[cdsdame]

I'm not doing well, guys. I feel so trapped where I am, and it doesn't help that the ex will not leave me alone, and yesterday, posted a bunch of personal stuff about me(without mentioning my name) on line. I'm not really eating(forcing myself to) I may have to get a TRO, I'm so lonely. I'm writing like a fiend, and pining for things I will

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[spicedogs]

{{{{HUGS}}}}

[ashlibrooke]

How won't your ex leave you alone? Is he trying to get back together with you?

Can you delete the personal stuff that you posted? Or have you already shared it with someone?

If you need to talk, i'm here.

[cdsdame]

He is as psycho as Patrick is, hon. He threatened to rape me twice, calls me the c word, I can't delete what he wrote. Still there?

[ashlibrooke]

Actually Patrick isn't being psycho at the moment. Of course i've allowed him back into my life atm and he's getting to see me, so he's getting what he wants....

I can't belive your ex said that to you! Is he saying it over the phone? Internet? In person? Are you in fear for your safety? Maybe you should talk to the police if you are.

[ashlibrooke]

I have another question, which I already know the answer to.

But...if the man of your dreams (Alton) was talking to you and wanted certain types of photos of you, would you share it with him? If not, how would you go about telling him no without wanting to disappoint him?

I don't even know why i'm asking you this. I know your answer. I just...I wish I could have my cake and eat it too. But it's never going to happen. I need to just let go of it.

[that_evening]

*HUGS*

I am so sorry you are going through this, sweetie. Hopefully the ex gets what is coming to him! How dare he post that kind of information about you (even if he didn't use your name). Please take good care of yourself, sweetie, don't let them win.

[shalimar77777]

Gosh, I don't know where to begin as I've been MIA for so long, but I just wanted to tell you that things will get better...they always do.

As far as the TRO goes, I would recommend doing it. He needs to learn that his behavior is unacceptable.