“If I look confused it's because I'm thinking” *

[cd_lind]

Am I the only one who feels a need to know why someone has defriended you? Sometimes it just feels like it has to be a technical glitch or something, because I can't think of what I could possibly have done to "warrant" being defriended.... Oh, well, that's nowhere near what I was planning on posting today. I shouldn't have updated my friend info

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[hils]

Sometimes it's best not to know. I asked and it turned into quite an abusive exchange of messages :(

[cd_lind]

Agreed. It's just that last time I was defriended by this particular person, it was due to a technical glitch. Oh, well, time will tell, I guess. :)

[hils]

Well, if you think it's a mistake it probably doesn't hurt to ask, especially if it's happened before

[cd_lind]

I think I'll wait it out for a while...I don't want to appear clingy (even though I am *g*)

[yukonsally]

I like to know too. Someone unfriended me recently and it drove me crazy until I figured out who. Turns out it was someone who didn't update so I hadn't friended her back. Ah well.

[cd_lind]

It's just that I'd recently been friended by this person after having been unfriended due to a technical glitch for quite some time, and I thought we were getting along great.

Ah, well, indeed. Time will tell, I guess. :)

[asgaja]

I'm actually more concerned when people friend me. Defriending doesn't really bother me at all, it happens every now and then since I only have fandom incommon with some people.

Oooh, tax returns. Dunno if I've gotten mine yet, gosh I hope I have.

[cd_lind]

I'm actually more concerned when people friend me.
The only problem I have with new friends is that I worry I won't get to know them well. I think it's the fact they're called "friends" that bugs me.

Defriending doesn't really bother me at all, it happens every now and then since I only have fandom incommon with some people.
For the most part I feel a deeper connection than that, which is definitely the reason why it bothers me so much. If I get an explanation it feels a bit better, but I'm usually still bothered.

Oooh, tax returns. Dunno if I've gotten mine yet, gosh I hope I have.
If you did your deklaration online and have a bank account listed with Skatteverket, you'll get it befolre Midsummer; hopefully this week.

[asgaja]

For me it's more that I don't like to share too much about myself with people I don't know and feel I don't have anything in common with so random friendings always weirds me out a bit.

Ah, I guess I can understand that. Don't really see it myself but that's what makes us who we are in the end. I mostly feel just, "Oh well your loss."

Yeah, I had gotten it. *_* Tax returns make me happy.

[cd_lind]

For me it's more that I don't like to share too much about myself with people I don't know and feel I don't have anything in common with so random friendings always weirds me out a bit.
*nods* Well, yes, random friendings weirds me out too. I've had some of those recently and I have no idea why those people friended me because we have nothing in common.... *shrugs*

Ah, I guess I can understand that. Don't really see it myself but that's what makes us who we are in the end. I mostly feel just, "Oh well your loss."
*nods* If you were to defriend me without a word, I'd definitely wonder what the heck I did.... ;þ

Yeah, I had gotten it. *_* Tax returns make me happy.
YAY for tax returns! \o/