Calzona issues : handle with care (Part-1)
Hey everyone, hope everyone is fine....so I was reading & thinking about some of the recent slides, synopsis, pics, interviews etc...& I thought about posting something.
So here I wanna discuss some issues which are NEEDED TO BRING CALZONA BACK.....some of which has already been addressed by the writers & directors in the show (previous or upcoming recent episodes) and few things I STILL feel needed to be done (which ofc they might address later).
I started writing it & having an obsession towards long writing, I figured if I put it in one post NOBODY will care to read it...so I decided to break it in two parts.
ISSUES THAT ALREADY GETTING ADDRESSED:
1) FINDING OWN SELF BACK: Well that's what are their main focus since 11x05 & this one was quiet needed as it's career based show & as careerist women they both need to find the self-worth, confidence, esteem as a person & as a doctor. WHEN U ARE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF THEN ONLY U CAN MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.
2) DATING OTHERS: I saw here some of ur reaction on Callie's new dating phenomena {the picture slides of Jeena (which potentially will be one of Callie's dates) made few of u happy, few of u disappointed, & few are disappointed for being others happy about it & vice versa lol}.... Let me start with my perspective here first, I'M TOTALLY AGAINST IT....I was against Arizona's immediate fling with Leah & I'm sure if Callie is dating someone it will turn out to be a fling & that will be against my liking....& u know why I say this because getting involved with someone when u are TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER PERSON (which I think and no should have any doubt about that they both 100% ONLY loves each other) is unhealthy. TECHNICALLY it might be right as in, since u are not in a relationship so u can go for it...but then comes the part where the question of heart comes...are u doing this for trying to MOVE ON IN LIFE or trying to FORGET ONE/EXPRESSING ANGER ....& in their case I vouch for the last one.
But now the creators perspective according to me in this issue is....I think sometimes U need that PUSH...try to start a relation with another person &.... realize the worth of the ur person, their meaning in ur life, the familiarity part with them, the part where u REALLY start recognizing & appreciating their goods & minimize their bads instinctually because they are YOUR PERSON, the ONE U LOVE (& just not another choice). So I think they might going in right direction regarding that.
3) BUILDING FRIENDSHIP: Well this part I'm 100% IN....& trust me THEY NEED IT....I know some of u might think that going into the being friend decreases their chance as lovers....but that is not always the case...they say "Happiness is marrying your best friend". For Callie & Arizona it was Attraction, Infatuation & Love from the beginning....& they never got the chance to really think or explore the friendship. Where I really think they definitely happy all the component to be great friends...they need to REALIZE that too. So if they able to develop that friendship FOR GOOD (not to suppress their other feelings or fake it)...I think it will ONLY BENIFIT their relationship & lead them to better understanding of each other as friends & eventually as a couple.
HOPE: With all the interviews & all....honestly what I get is series of hopes....the development will be SLOW but STRONG....they will break the bone to make it stronger.
Ur opinions will be hugely appreciated + plz tell me if discussing the issues still needed to be addressed is at all a good idea or not!
Thanks :)
So here I wanna discuss some issues which are NEEDED TO BRING CALZONA BACK.....some of which has already been addressed by the writers & directors in the show (previous or upcoming recent episodes) and few things I STILL feel needed to be done (which ofc they might address later).
I started writing it & having an obsession towards long writing, I figured if I put it in one post NOBODY will care to read it...so I decided to break it in two parts.
ISSUES THAT ALREADY GETTING ADDRESSED:
1) FINDING OWN SELF BACK: Well that's what are their main focus since 11x05 & this one was quiet needed as it's career based show & as careerist women they both need to find the self-worth, confidence, esteem as a person & as a doctor. WHEN U ARE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF THEN ONLY U CAN MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.
2) DATING OTHERS: I saw here some of ur reaction on Callie's new dating phenomena {the picture slides of Jeena (which potentially will be one of Callie's dates) made few of u happy, few of u disappointed, & few are disappointed for being others happy about it & vice versa lol}.... Let me start with my perspective here first, I'M TOTALLY AGAINST IT....I was against Arizona's immediate fling with Leah & I'm sure if Callie is dating someone it will turn out to be a fling & that will be against my liking....& u know why I say this because getting involved with someone when u are TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER PERSON (which I think and no should have any doubt about that they both 100% ONLY loves each other) is unhealthy. TECHNICALLY it might be right as in, since u are not in a relationship so u can go for it...but then comes the part where the question of heart comes...are u doing this for trying to MOVE ON IN LIFE or trying to FORGET ONE/EXPRESSING ANGER ....& in their case I vouch for the last one.
But now the creators perspective according to me in this issue is....I think sometimes U need that PUSH...try to start a relation with another person &.... realize the worth of the ur person, their meaning in ur life, the familiarity part with them, the part where u REALLY start recognizing & appreciating their goods & minimize their bads instinctually because they are YOUR PERSON, the ONE U LOVE (& just not another choice). So I think they might going in right direction regarding that.
3) BUILDING FRIENDSHIP: Well this part I'm 100% IN....& trust me THEY NEED IT....I know some of u might think that going into the being friend decreases their chance as lovers....but that is not always the case...they say "Happiness is marrying your best friend". For Callie & Arizona it was Attraction, Infatuation & Love from the beginning....& they never got the chance to really think or explore the friendship. Where I really think they definitely happy all the component to be great friends...they need to REALIZE that too. So if they able to develop that friendship FOR GOOD (not to suppress their other feelings or fake it)...I think it will ONLY BENIFIT their relationship & lead them to better understanding of each other as friends & eventually as a couple.
HOPE: With all the interviews & all....honestly what I get is series of hopes....the development will be SLOW but STRONG....they will break the bone to make it stronger.
Ur opinions will be hugely appreciated + plz tell me if discussing the issues still needed to be addressed is at all a good idea or not!
Thanks :)