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[butimwondergirl]

[Locked to Bart, Cissie, Kon and Tim

Comments

[cisskabob]

You don't need to apologize for making plans or trying to be organized.

[butimwondergirl]

That's not all I am apologizing for. I wasn't able to speak coherently last night. Or plainly, or something. I'm sorry I upset everyone and I'm sorry I left things unresolved. With you especially.

[cisskabob]

Yeah.

[butimwondergirl]

Would you like to get some coffee?

[nokidflash]

How about we skip the homework assignment and just fight bad guys? I get what you're trying to do, Cass, but I really don't know if it's necessary... we'll find our balance. We did before, and we will again.

[butimwondergirl]

Clearly you do not understand what I am trying to do. And I would put that cavalier way of thinking in your weakness column.

[nokidflash]

Uh, yeah, sorry, I guess my telepathy's on the fritz again.

Go right ahead. It's also a strength, soooo put it in both.

I don't get why we're doing this, Cass.

[butimwondergirl]

Bart, it's fine if you don't understand but I want you to ask questions, not just assume and say "I get it, let's not do it".

We won't do it unless everyone wants to, but my thinking is that we all assume we know all this stuff about each other so well and it's not necessarily true. Yes, we were on a team together already but we are not the same people we were. And yes, we know ourselves and each other better than anyone else might but that doesn't mean we know everything we could know. How you see me, how I see me and how I actually am are all different and that is worth exploring. Especially as a group because as you pointed out last night you and Cissie discuss things and Tim and I discuss things etc. but that can just lead to yet more assumptions. I want to stop assuming.

[ihavettk]

You got nothing to be sorry about, Cassie. We trust you.

As for the sharing strengths and weaknesses, I also don't think it's totally necessary. I mean, we've fought together before. I'll go along with it if everyone else wants to, but I don't think we need to.

[butimwondergirl]

Okay. First read this comment to Cissie. Then read this comment to Bart.

I am glad you trust me. But I do have things to be sorry for.

[ihavettk]

Yeah, I read 'em both. And I still think the same. But if it helps you to apologize, that's okay too. And like I said, I'm okay with doing it.

[butimwondergirl]

...Okay. Thanks.

[deductionmaster]

I can see this being helpful. I'll get started immediately.

[butimwondergirl]

FINALLY. Thank you, Tim, I appreciate that. A lot.

[deductionmaster]

You're welcome.

[Locked]

Are you all right?

[Locked]

[butimwondergirl]

I feel like I make a mess of everything, so, no, not really. But I'm all right enough and I don't want you to worry about me. I'm going to talk to Cissie and try to make things up to her. Depending on how that goes...