Musings on mum

[busarewski]

Here I am again, almost five months later. Mum died on February 19th, she took her last breath at the hospital, with me and my sister by her side. Life became so much emptier when she left us. She never did regain consciousness after those last words to me in the living-room on the 18th of February - "Det blir bättre" - "det blir bättre".. it's mum

Comments

[idahoswede]

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved mother. The pain never goes away, the loss is always there, but it becomes a little less sharp with time. Please continue to talk to your mother in your heart. I do with mine and I lost her 25 years ago. She is with me, as is my dear father. It is just a little harder to hear them, but your heart knows and hears.

And please, cry when you have to, talk about her to anyone who will listen and don't pay attention to people who say "get over it" because you never will, but life will go on and at least you had her love and kindness in your life for as long as you did.

[busarewski]

Thank you for you wonderful reply! How very true words. And I will never stop talking to mum, promise =)

[grondfic]

I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))

Thank you for sharing, and please go on doing so whenever you feel you want or need to. Grieving takes its own time (and has its own rhythms too). It's different for everyone.

Please be sure and look after yourself (your health) too.

It's lovely to see you back here. xxxxx

[busarewski]

Thank you! I'm glad to be back, even if under sad circumstances..

[byslantedlight]

So sorry to hear about your mum. She sounds like a lovely person, and I can only imagine the empty space left for you all. Best wishes, hugs and happy memories, bittersweet as they must feel right now...

[busarewski]

Many thanks!

[elayna88]

I am very sorry to hear about your mom. She sounds like a wonderful person. {{{{{hugs}}}}}

[busarewski]

Thank you!

[cerisaye]

I am so very sorry to hear about your Mum. *hugs*

[busarewski]

Thank you!