I'm sure you'll settle in. It seems like a new horse means a new relationship, and you're just a little scared.
If she doesn't feel bad about it, I don't know what I think of that. That seems a bit harsh of her.o-o About the check- don't worry about it too much, just give it to her next time you see her. As for the friendship thing, no confrontational standoffs or nothin, just let it "slip" as it were.>->
Pretty much. It's a completely irrational fear, but when you're sitting on top of a thousand pound animal, your body doesn't hear the irrational part.
Well, I haven't talked to her, so she may be very upset. However, based on past discussions, it seems like she feels a lot of contempt for her grandfather (for a few reasons). Also, she didn't seem that concerned when he fell off the roof (even though he's in his eighties), so I'm not sure that the injury would change that much.
It's still a little disturbing, though. As someone who last two grandparents before she was born, another when she was six, and a grandmother when she was fifteen, I think people who have grandparents alive are pretty lucky. If one of my grandparents fell off a roof, I think I'd be more upset.
Shoot... I'm scared to pet horses. I've been to my room mate's place, and she encouraged me to go near them, and I was just very afraid.^^;
I guess I just can't understand that I guess. I lost my puerto rican grand father, I didn't even know him that well(he apparently covered for me when I decided at the age of 4 to flood the bathroom upstairs in order to go "swimming"). But I was really hurt when he passed away. My other three grandparents are in tact, but especially my grandma and grandpa on my mom's side, I am going to be devastated. They raised me, pretty much- mom was at work a lot. They're like parents to me.
After a while, you get used to their body language and you just know it's okay. Not scary then.
I don't understand a lot, but I told you about her overall contempt for pretty much anyone who doesn't meet her criteria. Your grandfather sounds nice...and I'll bet he had a good laugh at your swimming.
I just value family a lot and I can't understand people who don't.
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I'm sure you'll settle in. It seems like a new horse means a new relationship, and you're just a little scared.
If she doesn't feel bad about it, I don't know what I think of that. That seems a bit harsh of her.o-o
About the check- don't worry about it too much, just give it to her next time you see her. As for the friendship thing, no confrontational standoffs or nothin, just let it "slip" as it were.>->
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Well, I haven't talked to her, so she may be very upset. However, based on past discussions, it seems like she feels a lot of contempt for her grandfather (for a few reasons). Also, she didn't seem that concerned when he fell off the roof (even though he's in his eighties), so I'm not sure that the injury would change that much.
It's still a little disturbing, though. As someone who last two grandparents before she was born, another when she was six, and a grandmother when she was fifteen, I think people who have grandparents alive are pretty lucky. If one of my grandparents fell off a roof, I think I'd be more upset.
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I guess I just can't understand that I guess. I lost my puerto rican grand father, I didn't even know him that well(he apparently covered for me when I decided at the age of 4 to flood the bathroom upstairs in order to go "swimming"). But I was really hurt when he passed away. My other three grandparents are in tact, but especially my grandma and grandpa on my mom's side, I am going to be devastated. They raised me, pretty much- mom was at work a lot. They're like parents to me.
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I don't understand a lot, but I told you about her overall contempt for pretty much anyone who doesn't meet her criteria. Your grandfather sounds nice...and I'll bet he had a good laugh at your swimming.
I just value family a lot and I can't understand people who don't.
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