Comments | brokn2pieces: first night at the bath house

brokn2pieces

first night at the bath house

Aug 22, 2010 20:23

When I came out as a gay man there were a few lines I thought I'd never cross. I was young then (25), still fairly entrenched in fundy, evangelical Xian morality and I didn't know more than 2 or 3 gay people. The

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tbass August 23 2010, 03:47:34 UTC

Club z is absolutely disgusting and usually smells like g
feces. Basic plumbing (now called tribe) is more of a blow job place I think. If you choose steamworks, I will be there from 8pm til 4am 5 nights a week ad the night manager... So that would probably make you more comfortable

brokn2pieces August 23 2010, 03:54:35 UTC

Once I go to a place a couple times I am sure I'll get used to it. I'll let you know next time I am at SW. I'll see you Thurs in the U Dist!

bukephalus September 11 2010, 05:37:37 UTC

As a reviewer, you aren't exactly a disinterested party... :-P

badrobot68 August 23 2010, 04:55:29 UTC

God, I would have been terrified. At heart, I am still a total prude.

bukephalus September 11 2010, 05:38:08 UTC

Grow up.

badrobot68 September 11 2010, 06:23:41 UTC

WHAT.

brokn2pieces September 11 2010, 06:26:10 UTC

Stern icon is stern!

rickolis August 23 2010, 05:35:43 UTC

that sounds like such a fun thing. i totally want to volunteer, too!

brokn2pieces August 23 2010, 05:42:45 UTC

Would you like me to forward you the volunteer info? I can email it to you tomorrow if you're interested

rickolis August 23 2010, 05:51:40 UTC

totally!

jp5040 August 23 2010, 05:50:33 UTC

I almost went to one in my early 20's and I chickened out. Now I live far far away from anything like that. :)
I admire your bravery to go in and see it. I am not moralistic but it;s about my own self esteem and not having a frame of reference for it. I have had orgies, public sex, etc. But a bath house seems different, mysterious.

Thanks for the story.

J

ultramundanecom August 23 2010, 16:33:03 UTC

Heh. I've been to sex clubs but never to a bathhouse proper. (They closed all of them here in San Francisco in the mid 80s and they never came back.) Not all of ones I went to were totally dark, but they're usually a bit dimmer--sometimes more like dance club lighting (but less blinky.)

And you should totally try a Craiglist missed connection with the furry flasher guy. Would at least be interesting blog fodder.

brokn2pieces August 23 2010, 16:38:47 UTC

Oh, I should do a missed connection on CL. Good idea! It wasn't totally dark in every area but it was dim, like you said, as a club or something like that. Once my eyes got adjusted it was better. There were some areas still pretty dark though.