Painfully single.

[brokenremnant]

My best male friend, who is gay, told me something today that I shouldn't have been surprised to hear. The reason why I am single

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[man_juice]

I would help you out, at least with a date. If the chemistry was there though.... sexy party time mega fun zoom zoom.

[brokenremnant]

Well, I'm quite skittish when it comes to meeting people online. It takes a long time for me to trust.

That being said, after reading some of your journal and looking at your pictures, I'm quite nearly tempted to give up my paranoia. :)

[man_juice]

I don't know why you would be skittish about meeting someone when the only thing you know about them is that they take naked pictures of themselves and write explicit prose. Apparently, that's my strongest selling point though. Maybe we can get to know each other better?

[brokenremnant]

Well, I'm sure you have many other strong selling points. :) And yes, I would definitely like to get to know what those are. :)

[steeltrue]

The arsenal of masturbation tricks sounds like fun. Write about that sometime?

[brokenremnant]

I most definitely will. :)

[brokenremnant]

Fantastic quote.

And one I completely agree with. I'm just being whiny. I know whatever will happen will happen, I'm just whiny lately.

And if one of my friends were behaving like me, I'd tell them the same thing you just told me. So, really, I know better.

[atomicdak]

I'm not a believer in "...waiting for the right person...." because you can end up waiting for years. You have to go out and make things happen. Sometimes I suspect we all go through dry spells because we simply don't know what we want, so no one will seem attractive, but when we do know what we want it becomes easier to find the right person.

Going out and making things happen doesn't mean hanging out in bars or whatever but maybe focus on something specific. For example I enjoy photography so would sign up for photo events at local gardens, parks, and such and there would always be one or two interesting women there who I could meet. I've also had at least two friends try online dating services and they've been pretty happy about it so far.

I love the Vonnegut quote btw.

[brokenremnant]

You make an excellent point. I think I've just been so busy with all my other reponsibilities that I never take the time to have hobbies! But it certainly would help.

Online dating scares me a little. I mean, I have a friend who I've known for 3 years and we met online and I trust her. But, I'm always afraid I'm talking to an axe murderer on the other end. I guess I'm just paranoid.

[sexboy]

masturbation is great when your single