So for the past couple nights, Sal and I have been hearing a kitten cry. And that's not uncommon here, but this sounded like a baby, and one that was lost. So I went searching and of course it's on the second floor, stuck but a tree with non stable branches (I already tried climbing it). So the next day we didn't hear nothing so I figured it got
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*HUGS*
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*hugs*
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I think you're working along the right lines - worry about yourself and to heck with everyone else right now.
You need time to grieve, pure and simple. The human race is going nowhere (unless someone else knows otherwise?) it will still be there when you're ready to rejoin it.
Until then - do what you gotta do and take care of yourself.
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I keep trying to remind myself that this isn't a quick fix and I have to play it out. Of course the grief reminds me of that, when it catches me off guard and makes me cry while I'm ringing someone up at the register because she's buying her daughter flip flops.
One of the hardest things to realize is that the world doesn't stop, and selfishly I so want it to, to stop and acknowledge my pain and my mom's absence.
*HUGS*
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I don't have much for advice other than that. I don't think that Sal should be relying on you for financial support one way or the other - he needs to be a responsible adult.
Hang in there. Cuddle Teegan. Get yourself the new baby kitten out of that tree.(I expect pictures once you've won her/him over!) It's not easy, but things will eventually get better.
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Sal never lets me pay, and was always bringing food and stuff home for mom and I before. He hasn't been able to find a job, but my friends husband has a pretty good one lined up here in the next month or so. That's why I haven't asked him to move in because I can't pay for the both of us.
I'd love to cuddle Teegan but she'd rather use me as her latest spare rib dinner so I am giving her her space. As for the kitten up a tree, I can't get to it, and apparently neither can anyone else because it's still there. I really wanted it too.
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