Prepare for a MEGA HC rant - APOLOGIES IN ADVANCE IN THERE'S ANYTHING THAT CAUSES OFFENCE TO ANYONE BESIDES THE ONE IT'S BLATENTLY ABOUT
( Read more... )
Wow. Well, I hope that getting off your chest has, at least, made you feel better. I doubt it will do any good in terms of getting things changed. Believe me: I wish.
All I can say is that you're not alone in your feelings. I know I agree with most of what you said. For my own part in this, which you know because you've alluded to it, I'm sorry. I could say I was drunk and impressionable at the time, but in the end, that's not really all that important - except in so far as that that might explain the mad logic, lol. I fucked up, and I hurt your feelings, and I'm sorry.
Perhaps it will make you feel better to know that I, too, have been completely fucked over by her. Karma, right? Then again, that's a pretty big club. Hey, we should get jackets made. ;-)
I really hope that Cindy is free to use her character in the way she wishes because that only seems fair and right. And hopefully, karma will work its way back to the appropriate people, eh? Anyway, if you want to talk about any of it, you know where to find me.
Oh I know - I just don't understand how nothing can be done about it! I mean there are enough of us that I'm aware of for something to be changed, yet seemingly nothing is happening...I just don't get it.
Katie, I don't blame you. I was angry and upset at the time, but it's passed and well...it doesn't much matter anymore. I know you're sorry and that we've come past that now, so meh...it's in the past.
*sigh* Not karma. You're not a bad person. I think most people can find a way she's affected them in a negative manner, I just can't figure out when her karma's set to arrive. But I like the idea of getting jackets made. We should put some form of slogan across the front or something...tee hee.
She's going to use him regardless of Carol's words, and in the manner she chooses too. There's a big rift there that isn't my place to talk about but I know that friendship is dead now, for good.
Thanks. Chances are I will talk to you at some point. Hehe. I'm sure we have enough stories between us to last a lifetime. LOL.
I'm only going to say one thing on this situation, and it's in reply to thus: I really hope that Cindy is free to use her character in the way she wishes because that only seems fair and right.
Cindy will be allowed play her character how she wants to. However, with that said, the same courtesy is extended to Carol as well.
If you read below, I say as much. I mentioned Cindy in this particular post because I think it's harder to be forced to continue a storyline you don't wish to follow through on than it is to have to start over. Of course, I've had to deal with several PMs with people wanting to be Snape's child, so my viewpoint is naturally going to drift in one direction over the other.
So I'll say again what I said below, hopefully both women can set aside their differences and bring about an ending to the Barty/Allistar storyline that is acceptable to both parties.
*hugs* I know...I just didn't want to upset people and then I worried it'd get back to her, but I mean what's the point in that? She knows how I feel anyway, to some extent, and we're never going to be friends, so...yeah. Rant extraordinaire. Hehehe.
Wow, I feel like shit not knowing that all of this stuff is going on around a site where I've modded for nearly 3 1/2 years! *hugs* I hope you guys in Slytherin can get things sorted out, because after all, HC is supposed to be about fun :)
Hahaha, don't worry about it, Heather - most people didn't know, as I said before to Hollie. *hugs* Well either they didn't know or they knew the version Carol told everyone, that is.
And we won't til she's gone, really, cause she's wound enough people up the wrong way and refuses to accept she's to blame for it all....which pisses me off more than most other things.
But anyway...at least it's out in the open now. :)
Thank fuck someone has finally said it, it needed saying and I know that if I said it no one would believe it. So here's to Nadya doing the best thing this year, a year after it happened. At least the truth has finally come out proving that we aren't the bad guys in this, that we were manipulated and fucked over by a scheming bitch, who we apparently caused her to suffer from a mental breakdown. Yeah life sucks when you meet such idiots, but you know the best thing? We won't lie down and take it.
I know. It needed saying, and I was going stir crazy keeping shtum. Blah. It took me long enough to spill, though. Hehehe. But yeah - I'm glad it's out too. I love that we made her have a mental breakdown - it really makes me laugh...she's delusional and insane and we're better off out of it all.
Ohh guess what? She apparently thinks you're our ring leader!! *laughs*
I am woot! I've never been the ring leader before, but I know why she says that. 'Cause for you its been a year for me it's two years of being fucked over. Well your my lovely sidekick darling! We come as a gruesome twosome! Can you imagine us at a Slytherin meet up? We'd be avoiding the knives that she's throwing at our backs . . .
*shrugs* She told Cindy that...it just amused me. Lol. And yes, you're definitely more a sidekick than anything else. Hehehe. *snugs* We'd be GREAT at a Slythie meet-up! XD She can try her best but I refuse to be scared off anywhere because of her.
So personally, I think you're all wrong, and that's my flat opinion. Both sides of this damn story are seeing only what they want, and not everything. All in all pieces are left out or they just aren't getting everything. But really, if you took time to see EVERYTHING, this whole thing would make a bit more sense.
Honestly, there is stuff that you're missing too and if you don't want to see it no one can force you to see it. And don't say I'm only talking to one person because I've talked to the two people who are currently bickering the most...and it has to do now with not listening...because you say people don't admit things but really, if you'd talk to them and get both sides of the story I know that one person is sorry about what's going on between her and the other person.
There's a lot more to it than that - that's the basics. If you can tell me another way to see things, then I'm all ears, really I am, but as I say, there's a lot of things involved here that make it very complicated.
Perhaps there IS a lot I'm missing. But there are also lots of others who can readily back up everything I've said here - it's not for me to name them and repeat what they've said, but they are real people and have their own incidents. Not to mention that I regularly talk to one of them and thus know precisely how she feels.
I'm sorry you're stuck in the middle, hun, cause I never meant you to be.
Carol has openly admitted that she gets jealous and such, and she's sorry for hurting the people she's hurt, but a lot of people get mad and think she's just trying to get pity and such, but she really isn't.
I get where you're all coming from, but no one recently is trying to work things out. You guys say she gos berserk but it's because you start out harsh. I dunno.
Personally I think everyone should have a huge MSN chat about this because it's carried on so far. But I don't know how you all feel.
And it's not really your fault I'm in the middle. I've placed myself here, so it's my fault.
Okay...so others have replied to this - now I will cause I want you to understand things better in order to form an opinion whatever way that is
( ... )
Comments 45
All I can say is that you're not alone in your feelings. I know I agree with most of what you said. For my own part in this, which you know because you've alluded to it, I'm sorry. I could say I was drunk and impressionable at the time, but in the end, that's not really all that important - except in so far as that that might explain the mad logic, lol. I fucked up, and I hurt your feelings, and I'm sorry.
Perhaps it will make you feel better to know that I, too, have been completely fucked over by her. Karma, right? Then again, that's a pretty big club. Hey, we should get jackets made. ;-)
I really hope that Cindy is free to use her character in the way she wishes because that only seems fair and right. And hopefully, karma will work its way back to the appropriate people, eh? Anyway, if you want to talk about any of it, you know where to find me.
Reply
Katie, I don't blame you. I was angry and upset at the time, but it's passed and well...it doesn't much matter anymore. I know you're sorry and that we've come past that now, so meh...it's in the past.
*sigh* Not karma. You're not a bad person. I think most people can find a way she's affected them in a negative manner, I just can't figure out when her karma's set to arrive. But I like the idea of getting jackets made. We should put some form of slogan across the front or something...tee hee.
She's going to use him regardless of Carol's words, and in the manner she chooses too. There's a big rift there that isn't my place to talk about but I know that friendship is dead now, for good.
Thanks. Chances are I will talk to you at some point. Hehe. I'm sure we have enough stories between us to last a lifetime. LOL.
Reply
Cindy will be allowed play her character how she wants to. However, with that said, the same courtesy is extended to Carol as well.
Reply
So I'll say again what I said below, hopefully both women can set aside their differences and bring about an ending to the Barty/Allistar storyline that is acceptable to both parties.
Reply
Expect a text from me...
Reply
Do you have my new mobile number?
07855727873
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
And we won't til she's gone, really, cause she's wound enough people up the wrong way and refuses to accept she's to blame for it all....which pisses me off more than most other things.
But anyway...at least it's out in the open now. :)
Reply
Reply
Ohh guess what? She apparently thinks you're our ring leader!! *laughs*
Reply
Reply
Reply
Honestly, there is stuff that you're missing too and if you don't want to see it no one can force you to see it. And don't say I'm only talking to one person because I've talked to the two people who are currently bickering the most...and it has to do now with not listening...because you say people don't admit things but really, if you'd talk to them and get both sides of the story I know that one person is sorry about what's going on between her and the other person.
Reply
Perhaps there IS a lot I'm missing. But there are also lots of others who can readily back up everything I've said here - it's not for me to name them and repeat what they've said, but they are real people and have their own incidents. Not to mention that I regularly talk to one of them and thus know precisely how she feels.
I'm sorry you're stuck in the middle, hun, cause I never meant you to be.
Reply
I get where you're all coming from, but no one recently is trying to work things out. You guys say she gos berserk but it's because you start out harsh. I dunno.
Personally I think everyone should have a huge MSN chat about this because it's carried on so far. But I don't know how you all feel.
And it's not really your fault I'm in the middle. I've placed myself here, so it's my fault.
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment