So this week I realized that I am not comfortable identifying with, or participating in, the SFF internet community as it exists outside of fandom.
Earlier this week, regarding
Gaiman Fail, my friend Cathy & I had a conversation about the aura of worship that surrounds certain male writers like Neil Gaiman, Joss Whedon, John Scalzi, Cory Doctorow
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oh i'm so relieved someone agrees with me, haha. i was actually quite nervous about posting this because i was frankly scared of dismantling Guy Worship to any degree, even kind of a limited one.
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In re: point 1, I think there are certain female-centric Cults of Awesome - off the top of my head, Felicia Day and Summer Glau come to mind. That said, I don't think anybody can deny that even though these women are legit talented and actualfax awesome, their cult status has more than a little to do with their attractiveness - and in Felicia Day's case, that's (IMO) part of her schtick, the whole Hot Geek Chick thing. So - yeah. DO BETTER, NERD LANDSCAPE.
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The original version of this post, edited for length, specifically mentioned that the only girl I could think of who inhabits the cult of awesome the way the boys do is Felicia Day. (And in fact, the reason I edited this point out of my post was that I knew someone would come along and say this exact thing in comments and I'd just make it here instead, haha.) But I think she, along with Nathan Filion and Neil Patrick Hayden, are all part of the Subcult of Awesome that attaches to the Whedon entourage. Without that, I don't think you could say Felicia's Hot Geek Chick thing would have taken off the way it did. and Summer Glau i think is exactly what you said, her cult status is about her inhabiting that SEXY NERD stereotype. It doesn't seem to really be about her.
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okay, NPH i'll grant you has Harold & Kumar, but being Dr Horrible certainly doesn't hurt his nerd cred!
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tl;dr I love you. Keep doing what you're doing, because you're changing the world. Or, at least, some peoples' worlds.
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that is VERY sweet of you and i'm really happy to hear you say this. <3
but i have to say that none of these posts are really even about me, because they're really still a holdover from RaceFail--an attempt to learn and dig deeper and not play ignorant/avoidant while that kind of harm is being done. i don't know if you witnessed RaceFail but i feel like so many people around me have changed, the nature of what they talk about and how we all try to think about things, has changed since it happened. for me, it was a painful, ongoing personal reckoning, and it's still ongoing, which is why i am trying to be so much more active about making these kinds of posts.
Your idolmeta rec of my fic kind of rocked my world a little, too, so thank you for that. <3
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I--um. My first reaction was rather snarly and defensive. Luckily I know myself well enough to know that when I suddenly feel snarly and defensive, I am often wrong.
I don't know. I still feel kind of snarly and defensive, and also sulky and sad because I fucking worship this dude's Writing Skillz. (Which means you are pretty much writing to people like me, right?) He's had a major impact on my life; I would be very different but for his writing.
And that fact blinds me. And I know it, and yet I can't quite un-blind myself, but I think my point is... this post of yours hits home. If I weren't feeling defensive, it would mean you hadn't hit me. But you did, and I really truly thank you, because I clearly have some things I need to think about very long and hard. I shouldn't become so infatuated with someone's brain that I become grouchy upon even reading criticism of something they did.
I don't know if I can back away from the Cult of Awesome. And realising that I don't know if I ( ... )
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well, i mean, we are *fans*, and fans get unduly excited about things, and sometimes our heroes let us down. I am in this place right now where i'm 80% convinced Gaga is the best thing to ever happen to pop music since Madonna, and 20% convinced there's nothing at all ironic or meta about her spiel, that she's fully inhabiting that role of pop goddess and that the final layer of meta is that she is completely sincere about wanting fame. so i vacillate between total adoration and total cynicism. But, you know, the cynicism is a good thing to have, because it protects us from being hurt when our idols fall or disappoint us. And they always do, you know, because no one deserves to be elevated that high. It's awful, and completely unfair to them. <3
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For example, I loved the Ender books and still do; and I pretty much loathe the author ever since I found out about his seriously incredible levels of homophobia (like, advocating that gay people be put in jail just for doing gay things! if you did not know); and that is okay with me. The compartmentalizing, I mean. I don't think hating Gaiman is necessary (though...not my call, really), but, just...I don't know! I probably have said a ( ... )
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yeah, my intention was definitely not to make people feel guilty about loving their favorite authors, but more just to say, hey, when we surround these guys with all our adoration, we ultimately are taking it away from ourselves.
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