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[bluntboy747]

ok this may be hard to follow

My name is Brian Blunt I am 19 years old and I am gay.  It's easy to say but one of the hardist things to get out of my head, in fact its still scary to say.  ITs a label a group it confines you makes you one thing and i dont want just to be a gay man i want to be a person.  but with every new person i meet the first

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[die7fox]

How long have you been "out"? Just curious. I went through a much similar experience when I first started revealing myself to people. "Do I need to tell everybody?" "How will they react?" "Will they still accept me?" It's natural to ask these questions. It's also natural to fear being labeled, or being pigeonholed into a category. I can tell you that it does get easier with time. You become better at reading people, and you can gauge more accurately which individuals you can tell and which don't need to know. And being gay just becomes another component of your personality, but not necessarily the one that defines it.

HAVE YOU SEEN THE WAY I ACT i talk to everyone weather they would like it or notSo what? That means you're outgoing. I always found that aspect of your personality charming. You've never met a stranger. For God's sake, you're 19 and full of energy like a toddler on a sugar buzz. Enjoy it while it lasts! Not to sound like an old geezer, but you'll grow out of it. I know I did. And I can say with 100% certainty that

[mattylanks]

I went through that and I guess to a certain extent still am

[bluntboy747]

i just have this thing in my head saying it wont stop until i stop it if that makes sinse, i shouldnt have to, and it ounly really got bad when i found out my little cuz was looking at gay porn, because i know how hard its going to be for him, theres somthing in me thats just screaming i shouldnt have to think about these things but i do because people are not ok with homosexuality and its up to me and all other gay people to change there point of view, same reason why all these crack heads at the club have been pissing me off, i cant stamd for my community to be acting the way people think of them as such a seriotype. i need to do somthing to change the world and i cant it hurts if that makes any sinse at all

aww

[cowboyrider33]

BABY! I am sorry that you feel this way! I would have NEVER thought you were so insecure about it....like that other guy said...fuck all the haters! Be who you are and if people don't love you then tell them to go fuck off. You are an amazing person.....and you being gay is not all you are....you are soo much more! Everyone should be as funny, outgoing, nice, caring, and such a damn good dancer as you:o) I remember those catillion days......it was pretty hot to see you cut a rug :o) I love you boy!
~KaT~

[anonymous]

i say if someone is going to not like you bc of your sexuality then screw them. you should not have to tell anyone if you dont want to. hetroseual dont go around saying "hi my name is...and im hetrosexual." as long as you are a good person with a good heart it should not matter. as long as you are happy, people should be happy for you.

[madrigalboy03]

It;s okay to be gay look at me