Queer One

[blue_sky_48220]

I haven't posted a magic entry in a while, so here is one.

About one year ago, I began a relationship with a Queer Spirit, who likes to be called simply, "Dancing One." I met him in a trance after hearing him call me for a while.( Here is the entry from last year in which I described that first "face-to-face" meeting.) In that meeting he told me:"

Comments

[solvingmypuzzle]

I always entertain myself in situations like this. Being a very literal creature (and often very dense) I will be very vigilant in looking for the immediate "danger" or "consequence" but as soon as some times has passed, I forget that the stove is hot. That's when the very subtle form of whatever obvious situation will strike. I am really impressed with your direct and aware approach to this. I am also intrigued; my BritTrad background has often warred with my own queer nature. Being bisexual, and having encountered nongendered and allgendered deity, I have often rebelled against the strict male/female dynamic I have been taught (and wandered away from, obviously). Anyway, sorry, I have rambled. I just wanted to say I appreciate you sharing your thoughts.

[starfrosting]

hmm. mmhmm. it's funny sometimes what/whose energy makes those transgressions (whether hurtful or not), those deviations, more likely.

[warjustice]

Hmmm...boundaries were meant to be crossed...you were just the person the universe pulled in to do the crossing. And people get hurt too-just say sorry and move on

[dryadgrl]

I find that labeling leads to trouble. It's not very accurate to begin with.

I'm sorry there was pain. I'm glad you're conscious of it. That, to me, is the biggest piece - that someone else is paying attention. That goes a long way in connection.

Bonus: queer is fun! I like queer; I like genderqueer.