Do I need to Turn in My Bear Card?

[blklthrtn]

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. I am wondering how I can get over one of my biggest problems of meeting men and finding me someone for more than a weekend. I have noticed even when I was in the leather world that I could never seem to try and pick up someone that I found extremely attractive or hot

Comments

[blachubear]

Actually not everybody hits a home run when they go out. I met a sweet guy last night & I wasn't his type but we were very friendly to each other. I don't let it discourage me, I keep going. If I become discourage, I would had stayed home and mope.

One of the songs that pop out is from Coldplay's last album with the lyrics
"Those who are dead, are not dead, they just living in my head"
The line from that song is so true.
HUGS!!!

[otterdaemmerung]

If you go up to a man and start feeling him up, chances are you won't get him for much more than a weekend, since it would be obvious that you only want each other for erotic purposes. If you're looking for a longterm relationship, trying simply getting to be friends and intentionally not having sex until the third date. The guy might protest this, but explain to him what you're after and say you're "old-fashioned," and he might be willing to wait.

Yes, Seal is a very talented singer. I highly recommend getting his album Seal IV, which is good through and through. He also has a new greatest-hits compilation freshly out.

[tbrough]

I'd cuddle you for at LEAST 48 hours. It's a start (G).

[blklthrtn]

Awwe. Thank You!!!