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[bleach_fanart]

Ok. I aint an expert with such things. So i need to hear from you guys wat u really think wat u will do abt this situation.

Situation:

Imagine, you have this bunch of friends. Really great bunch of friends. Boys and girls mix. You fool ard, do stupid things together and bitch abt almost anything under the world without holding back much secrets.

Comments

[lilaciel]

Well, I do admit that the no comments things does get to me sometimes, it is just that, well, I am not seeking attention or what with my blog, but I just dun get it why some ppl just dun bother to even drop by a line or so? As much as possible, I do comment on other entries, but I dun see the same said ppl actually giving a damn about me. So now I more or less stopped my LJ entries or just put as private as in not even Friends-Only. I think that serve my purpose the best. Afterall, my blog is for myself only, no

[bleach_fanart]

Aww man speaking of which I haven been reading my friend's LJ recently =___=lll

wait wait am i one of those who requested photos from ya??? o__0 *short term memory*

Dun ask me why manz. We juz take it that he;s easily influenced and thinks too much.

yeah. We also kind of suspect is like PAS(Pre Army Syndrome)but....my friend is kind of...those that gets emo now and then? So cant really tell. but yeah...I also heard of the suicidal stories. ^^lll hmm....stress....weak mentality...whuh?

[lilaciel]

Well my dear, it wasnt meant to be anything directed at u ^^ Just my own opinion on this issue I guess, from my pt of view. Difference being that, hey, I get on with it so I dun get the whole being EMO part of ur fren.

PAS, hahaha, sounds better than what I thot but then again, hard for us to comprehense.

But I do seriously think that ur fren might be going thru this phrase, the uncertainity of NS and all and he chose to express it by reverting to his EMO ways so that hopefully ppl will take note of it?

[bleach_fanart]

Haha its juz something we came up with...not sure PAS really exist or not...oh well we got PMS to deal with so its juz fair =D

Well maybe yeah.

[mirime]

hmm.. this friend of yours sounds like an attention seeker. does he realize all the things you've done for him? has he ever thanked you for the things you've done for him? if he hasn't acknowlegded all the efforts you guys have put in, i say don't bother.. sometimes these people need to learn on their own that the world does NOT revolve solely around them.. haha.

[bleach_fanart]

Hey~ its been a long time since I've heard from ya~*hugs*

I am not sure if he realise it or juz takes it for granted. Or maybe we worry too much when we shouldnt be at all. Its juz that watever he said really made us feel unappreciated. Not that we NEED to feel appreciated, but it juz pisses us off to hear such insensitive words from him.

[mirime]

Have you guys tried talking to him about it? Confrontations can work sometimes.. maybe he's got personal stuff he needs to work out or something.. haha! XD If you guys really care though, talk to him about it. If he still is all unappreciative and shit, then i think you guys can give him to boot. hurhur.

*hugs back* long time no see indeed! ^___^

[bleach_fanart]

We tried to get a guy to call him, he off his phone. We tried to look for him on msn, he's always offline. If not he online for a while and is gone. We suspect its either he blocked us or is appearing offline. We asked one of his potential buddy wannabe to tag his tagboard in his blog, he replied "If u r my friend, leave me alone."

Boot. We are considering that already if he keep on trying to avoid us. Hey, its such a shame ya know. For a guy to make a bunch of friends worry abt wat the fuck is his problem.

[adrxuan]

1st word in my head...WOW!

haha..

but what u say is right!!!

All this hard plannin....getting a date to compromise him....he just doesn't understand how others feel...his post just made me feel DAMN UNAPPRECIATED...

i told you n cpy b4 the bbq that i was damn pek cek planning it oso....so damn pek cek plus after reading tt guy's post was lik..super duper wooper pek cek...

my 1st thought was that...why am i trying so hard....me n camel we're always planning outings even if it was hard..u tink v.easy to ask ppl to come for outings meh???

[adrxuan]

me n camel nvr gave up....n my reason for it is that i love 0405...*except u noe who*...i really treasure the class....and yet...there are ppl who can juz cut off the relationship between our cls just lik that...just lik THAT!!! how can he do this when ppl can trying so hard not to break the bond....n ohhh...do u think that i gave up juz bcuz he mk me feel unappreciated..?

NO!

we continued plannin for the sake of others..lik wandi and syahir....and me n cpy went still although we noe that the only gers frm 0405 who are comin is me, cpy and val..*cuz eunice v.late*

just get back on your feet. stand up yourself..you can't expect everyone to spoonfeed you all the time...and hello..if a person is strong..he shldn't fall down cuz off one setback. keep fighting!

[bleach_fanart]

Well, proves that someone is juz waiting for ppl to do the bonding instead of joining in and help. I dun see him calling us for outings before.

I really glad that even shahir who disappeared suddenly also came to the BBQ lah!

I really dunno how those that need spoonfeeding can survive next time. And Alot of ppl say these type of person cannot survive in NS de loh. its either get bullied, or get tekan.

Dun make me laugh. I dun see how he is strong from the way he talk in his entry. Lonely? As if we all never experience before. We all found our way to deal with it in secondary school leh. Now already poly grad liao leh...still cannot handle emotions? abit....under-developed sia.

[adrxuan]

everyone feels lonely in some parts of their live..you just need to deal with it somehow..and definitely humans are not creatures who can survive alone...

we need to help each other sometimes n etc...

n my mum oso tell me sometimes...when u do tings dun expect ppl will do the same back...tts the way it shld be....you do tings...not expecting smth back...

[adrxuan]

gosh....i can't imagine he hurt his friends by mking us feel tt we are worthless..not exactly the right thing to do...

it is just so disappointing that this is what he thought abt us. mayb we're just someone or some living person to accompany him through his poly yrs sometime..and after tt he realise tt he don't need anyone and kicks all his friends aside. wow..what a great friend.*rolls eyes*

[bleach_fanart]

So, like i said. I think he's losing his own friends. Noone made him lose his friends. Its his own fault. Who can him blame? himself loh. Not say we never support him throughout the 3yrs wat.

Yeah i am grateful when he lend me his listening ear that time during minor...then after that i really tot he can be a reliable friend loh. then now suddenly this shit came up. U think i not pek cek meh? its like u trusted something u should not loh.

Ok lah maybe he got his own problems lah...but its not as if we not here to listen to him wat. Why he die die also dun wan to tell us his problems? Its like he shut himself away and at the same time blaming us for not giving him enough attention loh.

[adrxuan]

got problems oso must ownself say out sometimes lo..lik if we don't meet we oso cannt see wads wrong with you..

u c tt time i feel pek cek..i oso go tok to cpy..i jus told her i'm not in a good mood n needed to tok to someone...then she said ok~ and listened...n even offered to help

i thought that's what friends are supposed to be...

[bleach_fanart]

Yeah lah!!

the if msn cock up...there's still the hp wat!! If not we can talk like that on Lj mah! so easy!! I really dun see wats so hard abt it and why some ppl thnk until so complicated!! its not necessary to find meaning in every single damn thing lah!

[cpy]

honoured...wao...I felt damn appreciated!!! lol... *hugs*

Sometimes, I wonder issit PAS or depression...Ok, cos I've a friend who HAD got depression, but walked out of it!!! This is wat I think STRONG is abt!!! Solving ur problems and seeking help when needed!!!

I admit pple DO GET affected by quotes from TV, but we dun follow it like idiots!!! And den get emo from following it...its like... errr... -_-" Trust me, my sis watched that JDRAMA VCD at least 3times(plus not still watchin on chnl U) but I dun see the prob on her... Tho occasionally, aft watching "My date with a Vampire", me and my sis made our ambitions ---> Vampire...lol...

Seriously, he has a prob...Or mayb he thinks that he HAS too much PRIDE 2 go low and call some1 out or say his probs out...cos he is STRONG and live in PRIDE!?!?!?!

[bleach_fanart]

Yeah...many ppl think they are strong....but in the end...maybe...not as strong as they think they are in other ppl's eyes.

Get affected, yeah, we also wat. Some are really nice and meaningful and really does aply to our life. But then again, its there to make us feel more confident and to understand something. Some ppl jzu happen to get lost among all the many meanings. =__=lll...which obviously hints that someone should stop watching Jdramas.

I am not sure abt the pride part. Let's not jump to conclusion.

Seriously. We talk so much here. but if e tell him face to face. do u gals think he will really listen? Something tells me it might be hard for him to break away from his.....logics watever u call that.