The Expectations and Fault Follow-up

[blairmacg]

In the comments to Making the Nice-Guy Challenge a Safe One, mrissa and scallywag195 both shared questions and perspectives I wanted to answer in more detail. That "more detail" ended up being much longer than I thought... but here it is!

Questions from mrissa first:

My question is twofold:

1) In what context would his actions have been reasonable in a class/mat setting?

Comments

[scallywag195]

This has given me a good deal of understanding how dogos work. Thank you.

[blairmacg]

I hope it made sense, and that the tone didn't sound... preachy? I guess? I tend to get very focused when I write on these topics, and worry that comes across as lecturing. :-)