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[birdinhand]

doing better.

here are some take-aways that have helped me rest the past few weeks...

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  i need to stop confusing what i want with what i should want.
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  it is totally valid that i'm single and in my early 30s. it doesn't diminish me, my heart, my life.
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  saying no is an option. letting people down is an option, too, however sorry i am to do it. i didn't

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[calledisrael]

it is totally valid that i'm single and in my early 30s. it doesn't diminish me, my heart, my life.

AMEN.
please remind me of this more often.

and i'm glad you are doing better.

[nico]

YES YES YES!

[nico]

oh and happy birthday early. keep repeating this to yourself (and to us)