Break up?

[biblondieshann]

Sometimes I wonder if exculsive'ity is meant for me. WAIT. No, I always wonder if its meant for me

Comments

[drasca]

I don't think its dumb. I rather like people able to handle open relations, and responsibly.

I think you do scare easy. That's ok too, so long as you realize it.

Do you have any other reasons you want to be in relationship that fits with what Ryan wants?

[biblondieshann]

Do you have any other reasons you want to be in relationship that fits with what Ryan wants?

Wait I dont understand the question. Wait unless I do... thing is, I dont think I want to be in one. If I break up with him (we'll remain great friends, we're not a bitter sort) I'll see afterward, if breaking up is what I really wanted. If I miss it like crazy, we can re-enter the relationship. If Im okay, then I;ll definitely know I just dont want to be in one.

I think I understood the question?

[drasca]

the fundamental question is:
Why do you want to be in a relationship?

Think you can answer that? Think Ryan can? Adding to that, what do you (and Ryan) want out of a (your) relationship?

If you don't have it figured out, that's ok too, but I'd ask those questions of myself and of my partner(s).

[sexinlife]

I don't see that as dumb, maybe in the long run you two can work on being exclusive with each other. However, in the moment, whats wrong with being sexually open with others, but emotionally exclusive??

Geez, that sounded just like a line from Kerry Bradshaw's column on Sex in the City!!!

[scottysgirl201]

Oh my gawd, don't be stupid. You guys are perfect, don't you realize that!! Be happy you have a guy that gives you that freedom. I think the main reason you and Scott don't get along, is because you have different views and opinion on that "freedom". If you break up with Ryan, you'll risk that. DON'T DO IT!!!

[biblondieshann]

Calm down lol. I'll call you.

[jerem_morrow]

Women, usually, know when they've found "the one", or at least (more realistically) someone they can be with long-term. Men, usually, don't. We have to wake each morning and convince ourselves. Over and over and over again. You've never seemed too, for lack of a better word, "girly" to me. I have many inclinations that are widely accepted as being feminine, so I'm certainly not trying to offend. Though, with you, offending isn't likely. :P Just saying that you're perhaps more keyed into that predominately male mind-set. And it isn't wrong or off that you should question your situation, at all. In fact, you'd be at fault not to.

[biblondieshann]

of course not offended! I think I do think like a guy, I am half lesbian afterall lol

[jerem_morrow]

Aren't we all?

[biblondieshann]

Hahaha yes!!