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can bi sexual males be happy in a marriage with a straight woman? anonymous July 1 2010, 01:58:10 UTC
My husband just informed me that he has had sex with a man before we met. which doesn't bother be at all. He's been looking at alot of guy on guy porn here lately. I just want to be sure i'm making him happy. and is there anything i should know to maybe help our relationship or would he just be happier without me so he can go both ways?
sorry if this doesn't have anything to do with the post. I just want to make him happy.

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Re: can bi sexual males be happy in a marriage with a straight woman? anonymous October 3 2010, 21:11:21 UTC
If you love your husband and want to stay together with him I can only suggest finding yourself a copy of 'The Polyamory Handbook' by Peter J. Benson. Your husband is probably not going to stop craving sex and affection from males as well as females and his revelation sounds like a 'I liked it, can I do it again?' opener, or even a suggestion that he already has someone in mind. That he is mentioning it rather than just going ahead and getting himself a date is a good sign, imho, so working at it could prove rewarding. If you want to make him happy ask him what he wants and then tell him what you want, because your happiness is just as important as his. Polyamory isn't an ease choice, but if there is enough love and mutual respect it can work. Good luck!

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