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benefitz

amhibious wildebeast

Sep 22, 2006 00:14

I had planned to post my long overdue update on burning man today, but alas, it's not gonna happen ( Read more... )

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ben! anonymous September 22 2006, 16:52:13 UTC

i have a package for you,
but alas, i lost your address in david's car.

send it to me here:
velocity418@yahoo.com
and i will send it out today.:)

suckie fuckaye ~

a i m e e

Suckie Fuckayeeee! benefitz September 22 2006, 18:27:21 UTC

Yay packages! I have emalied you my address. I'm excited!

Re: ben! benefitz September 29 2006, 04:58:02 UTC

I got the package! Thanks so much! I haven't listened yet, but I'm looking forward to it. I like your puffy stickers.

jonsonite September 22 2006, 18:06:46 UTC

Man, unstated needs and expectations are the bane of all honest men. Seriously, WTF?

Ok, got that overwith. Yeah, I don't think I've ever had one of those work out, though I've often managed to salvage the friendship. Blech. By rights it should be easy-peasy.

Your college buddy Riana got in touch with me. She apparently thinks that because I'm a 3L I can give her tips about law school. The ony tip I have is to avoid law school. But I'll see if I can get her into croquet, boardgames or swingdancing. No better way to avoid law school than to hang out with the undergrads, right?

benefitz September 22 2006, 18:23:41 UTC

Normally I might expect unstated needs and expectations, excepet that in this case it all was preceeded by a lengthy talk on feelings and needs and expectations so that they would not need to be unstated. In all fairness though, feelings are complicated and I understand that she didn't fully understand what she needed until after the moment had passed. I'm not worried about the friendship disintegrating.

Wow, Riana's fast. I left her an LJ comment last night mentioning you. Oh, becuase she asked, I posted your full name and email in a comment to her. You probably don't want that, right? Should I go back and delete it? I should have just emailed it to her.

jonsonite September 22 2006, 18:44:07 UTC

No worries, delete it now, if you please. Since people generally get emailed comments immediately, if I want to send something private, I usually put it in a comment and then delete the comment immediately. It usually works pretty well.

I've had that happen too--people often don't know what they want up front, even if they think they do. I'm glad the friendship is still ship-shape.

benefitz September 23 2006, 02:02:31 UTC

Deleted!

In my head, it sounds like Strongbad.

emmling September 24 2006, 05:08:42 UTC

I've been totally impeccable and honest and have done nothing wrong.

Ben, sometimes, you are a FUCKING RETARD.

benefitz September 24 2006, 22:37:43 UTC

Would it be too much to ask you to elucidate me? I honestly don't know what you're getting at.