How sexual attraction works in me as a demisexual person

[belenen]

icon: "analytical (a close-up photo of my eye in bright sunlight, showing the green and grey and roots-looking patterns)"Being demisexual means different things for different people. I identify as demisexual because I don't experience primary sexual attraction: that is, I never just want to have sex just for its own sake. I never get a physical

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[hana_broom]

That was really interesting to read :) I never feel sexual attraction to anyone and my past makes me wary of men. I guess that would make me asexual.. it's all so complicated!

[becomingkate]

Hi, I saw this post on the LJ front page and was wondering a couple things-first of all did you always identify as demisexual and do you believe it is something someone can become or that someone either is or isn't? I used to want to have sex without having a big emotional connection but now I find I don't want to. I can live without sex if I find that I don't connect with the person in that way. I don't want to divulge a lot of details here so you want to take me up on my questions feel free to PM me; if not I understand.