beginning romance as an erotic mirror/demisexual: after platonically in love I can fall romantically

[belenen]

icon: "osculant (photo of Hannah and I lying on our sides facing each other, our legs and shoulders slanted toward each other and the floor, so that our bodies together make the shape of a heart: our outstretched arms are the point and our bums are the two curves)"I don't get romantic crushes on people before I know if it is possible for them to

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[webgirluk]

It is interesting what you say about only being interested in romantic love unless they're interested in you first in a sense and it sounds as though the lines between platonic love and romantic are quite blurry in a way, rather than black and white. It's similar for me as well, I think. I can definitely feel platonic love for some of my friends and the only difference really being the sexual element.

[belenen]

*nods* that's one of the reasons I can't be comfortable with monogamy -- my feelings don't fit in boxes like that! It's always a mix, no sharp lines between.