icon: "Ma'at (a photo of one side of a brass balance scale, with a feather inside the bowl. The background is sky blue. On the bottom of the image, below the photo, is the word "Ma'at")"
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So I think it's preferable to make a game out of it. (Well, what I call games in this case is gradually changing a mode of behaviour without "committing" to the new mode too fast. Thus, the "game": play at it until you are comfortable with it.) The game is "what if I replaced the 'sorries' with the 'thank yous'"? - followed by the same graphics in reverse order.
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Yes, I like your framing better! It does help to ask "what if?"
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In many of these cases, I would use an apology instead of thanking someone because I don't actually know what the other person is thinking - maybe they really do think I'm a drag but are being polite. It feels presumptive to me to thank people for things if I'm not actually sure that's what they're thinking/what their actions meant.
I always feel like a contrarian! But the concept is good.
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