inefficient ways of creating intimacy through "drama" or sex, creating deep intimacy, my methods

[belenen]

Some people haven't learned many ways of intimacy; they might use "drama" (artificial fights) or sex to try and reproduce the times they felt intimate with another person

Comments

[callmebee]

This is really pertinent to me today. Like, I needed this post right now, not yesterday or tomorrow, but right now. Thanks. I never share this, but I read your posts very often and you've given me a lot of food for thought over the years.

In addition to that, I can truly say the CurvyGirls has, and does, shape the way I look at myself and the world. It was almost key in my recovery process, more than any doctor or support group.

Just wanted to share before I get shy again :o)

[lorelei_sakti]

I love this post. As I read it I see some things that I already do, and a lot of things that I can improve upon. Intimacy is very hard for me. I'm so afraid of being exposed.

[kschap]

Bel, I love you so for giving me SO MANY useful things to think about. I am slow to learn and incorporate new practices in my life sometimes, but I feel like your presence in my life gives me an extremely useful outline for where I hope to eventually be. Thank you.