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delicatexflower October 30 2009, 22:01:50 UTC

bm. this is very interesting... perhaps you had to go through with what you had to with your ex-partner to come out of this experience finding out what works for you best in your relationships...

i get a good energy feeling from this entry. growth. you are growing more and more aware of what you WANT and NEED in a relationship.

i'm so proud of you! ♥ xo

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zen_sakka October 30 2009, 22:12:46 UTC
Off topic - but I've decided to go the CP on Sunday! So I'll see you there!

*excited*

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storeyphoto October 30 2009, 23:37:49 UTC
I so understand and relate to your sentiments. Not being in a relationship is so freeing after being married for most of my adult life. My therapist asked me what I wanted from a relationship and I had to honestly answer that I do not know. I just don't want one right now. Maybe that will change and maybe it won't. Keep learning!

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kschap October 31 2009, 09:41:30 UTC
Very interesting thoughts you've written here, and ones that I find myself relating to.

It's so great to see you growing and shifting. :) ♥

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xochitl October 31 2009, 14:50:45 UTC
I can relate so much! This is why I'm getting my own room after we move. I have no problems living with D, because I have no issue being housemates; but sharing a bedroom is just too much for me, and I don't feel like I have enough freedom because I have to schedule my relationship with J around what D is doing. I hate the primary/secondary hierarchy too, but it's kind of unavoidable most of the time.

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