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flyingshaman April 14 2008, 01:54:12 UTC
This sounds more and more like angel speak, dear Bel.

As in, a very cool thing.. just perhaps difficult to remember.

I use gender-defined pronouns, but for me (I think, at least) it doesn't always mean that I'm ascribing a certain stereotype to a male-bodied or female-bodied person (wow, there I go!). People are people, who ever they are.

This could be an interesting experiment/journey.. and also acknowledges humankind (hummingkind? :)) rather than one or the other party.

*turkles*

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belenen April 14 2008, 18:02:00 UTC
oh, no, I didn't mean to imply that those who use them are ascribing stereotypes. Just that they CAN be used for that purpose. Like, if everyone carried a knife some would never consider using it on someone else but they are providing an easy source of weapon for someone who WOULD.

and also acknowledges humankind (hummingkind? :)) rather than one or the other party.

Yes! Exactly! The point is, helping people (mainly myself) to realize that we are all the same!

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flyingshaman April 14 2008, 19:56:37 UTC
ah, yes, I understand that. too often is there the chance that someone might choose to use that particular gender against them, like "oh men aren't nurturing," and "oh women can't be aggressive."

many people DON'T think that, but many other people DO.

we are all spirit, yes. *loving gaze*

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gem_night77 April 14 2008, 02:28:01 UTC
That is going to be so hard to remember.

You amaze me. (in such an positive way)

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belenen April 14 2008, 18:02:36 UTC
it is hard. but I will do it! *is determined*

thank you ♥

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awesomeosity April 14 2008, 02:51:54 UTC
Sounds very interesting. :]

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belenen April 14 2008, 18:02:53 UTC
we'll see how it goes ;-)

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browneyedgirl65 April 14 2008, 02:52:59 UTC
One of the things I love about ASL is the completely gender free pronouns :-).

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belenen April 14 2008, 18:03:23 UTC
that is awesome ;-)

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tragicnothing April 14 2008, 03:03:46 UTC
Hi I'm new here :)

I like the idea I was just wondering if there's any reason you choose the particular terms you did?
I try to use nongender specific language in my blog (except when I am actually talking about a specific gender of course) but I just use "one" or "individuals, persons" etc.

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belenen April 14 2008, 18:05:27 UTC
oh, because when talking about a person, like "so-n-so did this" if you talk for a long time you will want to substitute pronouns for the name. and since English doesn't have any commonly used gender-neutral terms, I chose some new ones which have started to gain use.

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