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[belenen]

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[belenen]

*hugs back*

no, I have not had that pleasure, but she is fast becoming one of my favorite artists!

[acid_burns]

Wow. You've seen her live?

You're the luckiest person on earth.

[lorelei_sakti]

I hope you find a friend who can console you at the same time you are consoling them. Two friends can show each other the beauty in life while at the same time restoring each other's confidence.

[belenen]

The way I see it, it's like two people climbing a mountain. To be successful, one person has to give the other a push so they can climb on a ledge, and then the one on the ledge has to reach down to help the other up. I feel like often, a person is in the middle of helping me up to the ledge when they stop and want me to push them up instead, rather than waiting for me to be able to pull them up. Do you see what I mean? it's important that both people be helpful, but it only really works if it is one at a time.

[lorelei_sakti]

Ah, okay. I thought that you were saying one person had to help the other person climb the entire mountain. I agree with you; both people help each other with the climb, but the friend has to at least finish pushing you onto the ledge!

Unless some unexpected crisis in their life comes up, and then they are suddenly not able to help you anymore...

[acid_burns]

I love you, Bel. More than you'll ever know. I just love you. Uncoditionally. *hugsyoutight* I'm always going to be here. For you. Email me if you want to.

I'm so happy you're into Missy Higgins. I can't even tell you what her music has done to me.

[belenen]

you are such a sweetheart *million hugs* I'm so glad to have you in my life, you have been such an amazing comfort to me ♥ ♥ ♥

and I am so happy you introduced me! NINETEEN of her songs are 4- or 5-star ratings by me :D 100 Round the Bends, Secret, The Wrong Girl, Dancing Dirt Into The Snow, The Special Two, Scar, & Unbroken are all absolute favorites. She's amazing!

[acid_burns]

The Special Two ♥

Here's the backround story for the song... (it breaks my heart):

'The Special Two' relates to the relationship between Missy Higgins and her sister Nicola. The song was created when Missy locked herself in the bungalow at the back of her house with a bottle of wine. It was a very dark few days for her as she disappointed her sister and wanted to apologize.

♥ I'm SO happy you like her as well.

[belenen]

that's so amazing! ♥ thanks for sharing it with me.

[kevloid2007]

the problem with needing so much from the people in your life is that almost nobody can satisfy the need by themselves. I think you need to delegate - ask smaller commitments but lean on more people. I think you'll find your blue times won't be as blue.

*hug* just keep keepin on.

[belenen]

I agree.

*hugs back* I think this is just a dark time, but the light will come out again.

[blood_4_deniro]

*tons of hugs* if you ever wanna talk about anything, i dont have a mic, but i think i still have my msn (and i have a myspace...tho the IM isnt working for me but there's always the messages).

i hope everything works out for you ok, tho. i usually feel the same way quite often. i always love listening to people and trying to help them. and if i still lived in GA, i'd definitely join your group.

[belenen]

aww, thank you *hugs* I wish you did still live here!