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[beccala]

Let me preface this by saying one thing.  What happened last night was my fault for not speaking up at the time.  My fault for letting it get out of hand.

Howfuckingever.... It was also completely unacceptable.

Lets get something straight.  First and foremost.  Just because I'm not beating someone's ass, just because i'm not making the other

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Understood

[ici1011]

It is never polite to 'socialize' around a scene. Yes, even blacking is a scene. It is something special between the two people involved. I am sorry that your headspace was ruined. I wasn't there but I can relate. I have had a couple of other scenes ruined because of people socializing in the doorways and such. There are always rules in playspaces for that reason and yet some people choose to ignore them.
Hopefully the next time things will be better since people will hopefully see this and better understand what happened.