On the 20 year anniversary of my mother's death.

[beardoc]

Today marks 20 years since my mother passed away from a near 10 year battle with breast and then bowel cancer. I was there when she died, and that experience has deeply affected me over the years. She died two days before my 15th birthday, and whilst I've since come to a much better understanding of everything since then, it did have a major

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[teddyb]

That's a beautiful remembrance, Seumas.

I'm glad that the wonderful memories of your mother help to overcome the sadness of the loss.

It is much the same with me and my mother. While I miss her a great deal, I find I am grateful every day for the values she passed on to me.

[arktos62]

She couldn't have wished for a better legacy.

[[fuzzy tummy-rubs]]

[huxbear]

The warmth that seems to shine through everything you do is your greatest tribute to the gift that your mom gave you, man... :o)

Your mom, I have faith, would be well-chuffed to know what kind of man you turned out to be & what you've done with your life & how you've faced the tough decisions at times... :o) [[snuggs LOTS]]

[notdefined]

Being present with a loved one during the transition is truly one of the most intimate and unforgetable experiences one can have. I was holding my last partner in my arms when he died and that moment changed me forever.

[pink_halen]

It is always too soon to lose a parent. I was fortunate that I had my mother for as long as I did. It's been over 25 years since she died. I appreciate your feelings about loss. Hugs from Denver. Thanks for posting here.