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Throughout Doctor Who, the Doctor is attracted to white woman after white woman, and then along comes smart, resourceful, Martha and again it shows that what ever we do as Black Women-no matter how smart, how brave, how beautiful we truly are- we still can't measure up to our White counterparts.I think this is what we have a difference of opinion on, I don't see The Doctor's affections as a litmus test of desirability for the show. Martha received a good amount of male attention from other male characters, arguably more than Rose because of her fixation on Ten. Jack took a particular interest in her, as did Shakespeare, Tom, a few other guest stars and ultimately Mickey ( ... )
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<"Martha received a good amount of male attention from other male characters">
That would have been fine, if not for the fact that the audience really cares about the Hero's treatment and behavior towards Martha. If the Doctor didn't find her attractive but secondary character did, that's great in a bubble, but we aren't in a bubble. His attitudes towards his companions will generally shape and reflect the audience's attitudes towards Martha as well. And that's dangerous.
<"I consider this The Doctor's failing, his flaw. Not a reflection on Martha as a character"> I agree with this wholeheartedly. He is a huge moron for not seeing the beautiful woman that was standing in front of him. But it still aversively sends a dangerous, pervasive message that I don't need to see played out on a Science Fiction show.
Thank you again for taking the time to read and comment :D
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But, yes, the audience does not care about Julia because the Doctor has already declared that she was useless.
Doctor Who plots does this a lot, right up to Midnight and that amazing scene when Ten realizes he never asked the woman who saved his life her name.
bcbgrl33 writes:That would have been fine, if not for the fact that the audience really cares about the Hero's treatment and behavior towards Martha. If the Doctor didn't find her attractive but secondary character did, that's great in a bubble, but we aren't in a bubble. His attitudes towards his companions will generally shape and reflect the audience's attitudes towards Martha as well. And that's dangerous.It is scary, but I'm a little more frightened of an audience who find Martha unappealing because the Doctor behaves ( ... )
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I was arguing with a couple of guys about the treatment of Martha. "Name one time the Doctor gave her a compliment," I asked. "Not a statement of fact, like 'you saved the world,' an actual compliment."
They both insisted that there were plenty of times, so I insisted that would make it easy for them to them to come up with something.
And then they were silent for about two minutes, trying to actually come up with one.
It's not just her desirability, it's the way he treated her overall. Apparently showing someone is kickass is enough for them; telling the world that you've *noticed* and *appreciate* that they're kickass is just too much for Some People.
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THIS! This whole comment. Seriously, you are so right to tell them that an actual compliment is not the same as saying "you saved the world" or "you are kickass" We know that. She knows that. Now the Doctor needed to recognize and verbally pay her that compliment; otherwise people will have delusional events where they think he complimented her but didn't.
Thank you for your comment. I love your essays about Martha and DW; it's what inspired me to write my observations as well :D
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I still didn't quite shake the delusion, even though I was saying "See? See? My point exactly!" while they were thinking.
You're more than welcome. I'm glad to have been an inspiration!
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